I am a retired bookkeeper and am 66 years old. I have been married for almost 39 years. I do a lot of things to keep busy, I bake, make jewelry, crochet and needlepoint. My husband is a very picky eater so when I cook it has to be for what he likes, I am now trying to make separate things for myself, which is mostly vegetables, chix and fish. He is always complaining I don't eat enough, and I have to quit listening to him. I also have problems with the fact that I am diabetic and I have kidney disease, so finding things I can eat that will do three things is very hard. Not too much protein for my kidneys, but protein is good for weight loss, carbs are out because of the diabetes. So I need three different diets and that is impossible. I feel hopeless and helpless.