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23 August 2011

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20 August 2011

For those of you not following along at home my brother was a total douche about my mom on FB. I read it, was upset, called him he hung up on me, and struggled on "should I tell mom or shouldn't I" I waited to tell her. I wanted to make sure I was doing it for the right reasons. I decided that if the situation were reversed I would want to know. SO I told her about it. To be clear I do not think our mother is perfect. But I also dont ask her for help then bash/belittle her on FB. Which is what my brother did. So anyway I told her about it and was crushed when it seemed that she did not even care. All I could think was "you have tried to help him so much (give him money/watch his kid/clean his house/care for him after surgery on his knee/be moral support after all four of his divorces) and this is how he treats you.. why is this ok with you" Well she wrote him a letter and sent a copy of it to me. I am so glad she wrote to him.. I was so sad because I thought she was fine with being treated like dirt, again I am not saying she is perfect but really who is and we are all flawed to different degrees, but to call someone for help and then to publicly belittle them is terrible adn to your own mother that has honest to god helped any time any way EVER that was possible. I dont think she has ever told any of my siblings no I wont help you. My siblings are all much older than me by 11,13, and 15 years, so it is not as if the one was a kid and did not know better.. he will be 50 this Nov. I am glad for her that she stood up for herself and said that it was not right. Over the phone she kept telling me that it was ok, and that people see her for who she really is.. not who my brother bad mouths on FB. I had no words.. I just said "ok" and felt terrible for her. I am glad she does not think that treatment was ok, or that bad attention is better than no attention.
Now I am done with that rabble. (I hope.. maybe I should turn off my phone for the next week) I went to a kids birthday party today and I had the fruit salad and did not eat the cake. :) My only other hurdle this weekend is "supper club". A bunch of moms I know get together one Sunday a month and have dinner somewhere.. and tomorrow is the day.. it is at a steak house this month (yum steak slobber drool) I have looked at the menu and I need to devise a plan. :)
Wish me luck and have a great day people.

19 August 2011

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