You can't listen to everyone else it's really about what you want for YOU. Everyone has their input and thinks "they" could do it better or here's what you should do... Weight loss and beauty is really about making you feel better about You and no one else...
17 Sep 17 by member: M041480b
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Opinions are like assholes, everyone's got one. Do you, and if you do get pregnant, you can continue to eat in a healthy way without jeopardizing the baby!! Chin up princess!!
17 Sep 17 by member: Jenibeann
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You should eat the way that makes you happy and healthy, I usually don't share with other people how I eat,or my WOE because it is only for me and me alone.You have your own journey so stick to it..
17 Sep 17 by member: DO N OK
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I know how you feel my friends and family tell me how and what to eat. I just agree and do it my way anyway! Cheer up...don't give up... you CAN do this! :)
17 Sep 17 by member: cherik1
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Thank you all. I needed all this. Y'all are right it's for me and only me. I need to keep my mouth shut and just do me.
17 Sep 17 by member: emilygu
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Ms Gu, you're seeing the people of the world that seem to know it all about YOU when only YOU know you... distance from the naysayers when possible helps. Also, I've found that not telling people how I eat, I do much better. Even when we go out to lunch or dinner with customers and guests, I order like other folks do, I just make sure it's within my WOE. As for getting pregnant, only you and your dr can determine if you need to do something different, the old ladies in the family don't know as much as they think they do. I have a family full of them as well.....
17 Sep 17 by member: crankybuzzard
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Yeah as for the getting pregnant, that won't be happening anytime soon. Just kinda rubbed me the wrong way when I'm prolly getting more nutritious foods the way I eat then most people in my community. Although you are right if something happens and I do get pregnant again I will definitely get the dr approval for my woe and to watch closely to make sure the same thing isn't happening like I went through with my little boy.
17 Sep 17 by member: emilygu
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Also remember, you have a whole site full of people here that will understand and listen. Rants aren't an issue, and sometimes it really needs to come out.
17 Sep 17 by member: crankybuzzard
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Empathize with you! Everyone around me has an opinion and no context (they haven't been where I am).
17 Sep 17 by member: From371to184
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My response to those pesky little wet blankets is "I don't remember asking for your opinion" and "any unasked for advice is always perceived as criticism, ___________ you very much."
17 Sep 17 by member: cbliss16
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Well understood rant!🤷🏻♀️And eating healthy for YOU is eating healthy for any child you are bearing and your OB/GYN will tell you that because they sure as heck don't want you to have pregnancy diabetes! So they want you as trim and healthy as possible with good blood pressure, etc. And they stick you on massive prenatal vitamins to boot!🤷🏻♀️So tune 'em out. Thank them very much for their concern and go on with your well informed life! 🤦🏻♀️LOL
18 Sep 17 by member: smprowett
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