We have discussed it, at length. I know it's not a switch. It has to do with her insecurities. 23 years of marriage; intamacy isn't the main thing of our marriage. She's interested, but it only goes so far. I think that's the difficulty. Motors get reved up, the lights go from red to yellow, waiting for the green; and she takes the key out and shuts down. I have all the time it will take. Just a little surprised.