gg8266's Journal, 18 June 2013

I have struck an issue that I thought would never happen. I drop 170lbs, finally feeling great and want to be intimate, but it seems she wants nothing to do with me! I just don't know what to do?


Sorry to hear that. Have you tried asking her why she isn't interested? It may give you some insight as to any issues that you are unaware of. Whatever her answer is, know that it is not your fault. There is a woman out there that will be interested in you in that way. Give it some time. 
18 Jun 13 by member: worm2butterfly2012
Your finally ready....but what about her? Guess you will need to do a lot of talking before you get anywhere. Its not like flicking a switch. Sorry if I sound harsh, but I was in her position. 
19 Jun 13 by member: schmetterling34
We have discussed it, at length. I know it's not a switch. It has to do with her insecurities. 23 years of marriage; intamacy isn't the main thing of our marriage. She's interested, but it only goes so far. I think that's the difficulty. Motors get reved up, the lights go from red to yellow, waiting for the green; and she takes the key out and shuts down. I have all the time it will take. Just a little surprised. 
20 Jun 13 by member: gg8266
Just an idea--But sometimes women internalize things and blame ourselves for lack of intimacy. Meaning--when you guys weren't having much physical intimacy she may have been thinking that you no longer found her desireable. Let her know that it was your own insecurities and physical disabilities that caused the lack of physical contact. Let her know how desireable she has always been to you. This may help some of her own insecurities. Women want to be loved and desired by their mates. 
08 Jul 13 by member: worm2butterfly2012
Things are back on track! 
09 Jul 13 by member: gg8266


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