SHardy's Journal, 22 May 2013

My total weight loss has been at least 30 pounds. I weigh-in again next week. I am trying to figure out how to respond when I hear comments about my new appearance. I really don't like when my husband calls me skinny, when I am far from skinny. He also says things like I'm all skin and bones, which I am not. These comments irritate me because I don't know what he is really trying to do. In the past, he has given me very little support in my weight loss. I am not the sort of person who needs a lot of comments or complements. I think I am just not used to getting them, so I have adjusted to not getting them. True complements I can take, but calling me skinny when I weigh 214, is not right to me.
214.5 lb Lost so far: 13.5 lb.    Still to go: 34.5 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.

Diet Calendar Entry for 22 May 2013:
920 kcal Fat: 22.75g | Prot: 36.86g | Carb: 145.15g.   Breakfast: Coffee, International Delight French Vanilla Coffee Creamer. Lunch: CMWL Peanut Butter Crunch Bar. Dinner: Jehling Shrimp Stirfry, Western Family Chinese Fried Rice, Quinoa (Cooked). Snacks/Other: Zima (Sunset Grown) yellow (cherry) tomatoes, Honeycrisp Apples, Kraft Roasted Red Pepper Italian with Parmesan Dressing and Marinade, Balsamic Vinegar, Vinegar, Almond Butter, Peanut Butter. more...
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I don't think your experience is that unusual. I am about 25 pounds down from my highest weight 3 years ago and I STILL look at clothes in the store and think I will need a larger size than I do. My sister yelled at me a few months ago because I made a comment about me being the "fat" sister - she told me size 10 was not fat. Maybe it depends on how long we were overweight, or how we see ourselves in other ways. I am really trying hard not to judge myself by the scale, but I've done it so long I still do. But I don't even do it right. Instead of realizing I am still over all 20 pounds down, I notice when I am a pound up and that I still have so far to go, and I feel like a failure the whole day. Baby steps. I will learn to accept my body for what it really is.  
25 May 13 by member: JenVLaan
Thank You! I appreciate your comments 
27 May 13 by member: SHardy

     
 

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