Nola,
I feel you....I just want to take care of myself and Some of the people in my life not only don't support me...but they try to make me feel guilty...cuz I am taking time from them or my kids to go to the gym or because I choose to not eat dessert or bacon with my eggs. It is a constant battle for me to stay true to myself and not be swayed by others. Be healthy! Be strong! Love yourself! and know that you are not alone.