notelaine's Journal, 11 February 2016

Alright, I'm really quite pissed right now. Angry rant coming.

But how DARE people come on here, a place filled with overweight people staying positive and trying to better themselves, and whine when people get upset when they call fat people "grotesque" or "blubbery" or "disgusting"?? I mean honestly, don't we get that enough LITERALLY EVERYWHERE ELSE?? This is my happy place. My place where I can go and be honest, and admit my flaws and mistakes while encouraging my friends when they struggle too. Deliberately insulting and bringing people down on here to elevate your own shitty self esteem is rude, disrespectful, childish, and honestly pretty pathetic. I mean, where else could you go to try and hurt such a large portion of people at one time?

I am fat. And I know many of you lovely people are fat too. And just because we are fat, does not mean we are ANY LESS deserving of kindness, respect, and love. I will not stop my life until I lose weight. I will go out and enjoy the world without concerning myself with what other people may think of my happy blubbery self.

And I will continue to support and encourage people on here with respect and kindness, no matter what they look like, how much they have to lose, how much they may have gained, or if they are perfectly comfortable at the weight they are at.

Diet Calendar Entry for 11 February 2016:
1271 kcal Fat: 65.54g | Prot: 116.32g | Carb: 46.70g.   Breakfast: Boiled Egg, Butter, Food For Life Baking Company Ezekiel 4:9 Flax Sprouted Whole Grain Bread, Daniele Sopressata. Lunch: Chicken and Andouille sausage gumbo. Dinner: Chicken and Andouille sausage gumbo. Snacks/Other: Strawberries, Dymatize Nutrition ISO 100 Hydrolyzed 100% Whey Protein Isolate - Gourmet Chocolate. more...

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alone4ever, didn't your mom ever teach you if you cant say anything nice then dont say anything at all? or do you have tourettes?The point here is yeah, were all fat.. we know it , we hear and see it all day , but coming here is a place to get away from that negativity and who are you ? Oh wait, your prolly fat too.. Everyone's battle/journey, demons are their own and no one here condones obesity.. every one deals with it differently and no one wants their nose rubbed in the dirt.. OK? I mean some just the other day we were all talking about how great it is to be obese and not morbidly obese but who the ef defines these parameters? The fat police?.. There are anorexic people on this site whining about " oh my mom made me eat today" but no one complains about that.. SO alone, lighten up.. and Notelaine, good for you bringing this nasty topic into the light... we here to help each other.. never ever to shame anyone for any reason, except alone4ever for being a big jerk..  
11 Feb 16 by member: redgirl1974
The part of this that is so sadly ironic to me is that every degoratory comment that's been thrown around about fat people... it's something we've probably all thought about ourselves at some point. Might have only been a passing thought or maybe it's thoughts we've lived with for years. The haters can take a break...we've probably had the self hatred thing covered for a long time.  
11 Feb 16 by member: Vickie 5966
kpwcalories. ...... well said HA HA HA ... I already had to delete one of alones comments today. he has written some other crap thing to me too.... I may be fat... but i sure as shit am not alone.... probably because I atleast try to be a decent human. who I am is not necessarily my body. we drive cars but do we become the car??? no... you dont... I am me and I am decent and I don't need someone attempting to break me down as I'm trying to fix this vehicle I call my body. in the future why don't we all do our best to just simply delete those comments if possible and act like those people don't exisit.... out there we get treated like crap and we cant alays control that.. in here there is no way we should be putting up with it. so again. you see his name?? instead of reading the negative posts just hit delete... feels good... and then carry on with your journey.  
11 Feb 16 by member: 8hunter6
8hunter8 - a fun alternative is to think of him as Dana Carvy as Churchlady doing the superior dance. Support hose and all! ;-)  
11 Feb 16 by member: Vickie 5966
Notelain insulting people are usually fearful and have their own agendas- By the way you look fantastic- everyone one's weight and bone structure and height is different / basically each individual has to decide what weight is best for them as well as any medical issues ect 
11 Feb 16 by member: Maine coon
vickie... I like your style LOL I am totally doin that! 
11 Feb 16 by member: 8hunter6
Thank you Notelaine.It needed to be said.There are several self righteous, judgemental,rude people on this sight,who enjoy putting others down on FS.However, the majority are supportive ,friendly and give really good advice and share their experiences so as to help others.So lets ignore the trolls and keep on climbing! 
11 Feb 16 by member: UmmBilal
Well said!  
12 Feb 16 by member: kclab
ToniK98087, don't lump ALL us guys into the bucket of non-caring, uncompassionate a**holes... SOME of us do have share those traits... And BTW... notelaine, you are NOT fat as you self proclaim. You look fine and will only look better inside and outside when you reach your goal... Just saying... 
12 Feb 16 by member: millerm40
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