Gabs1972's Journal, 12 April 2011

After I lost the weight, my life as I knew it was over. I got divorced from food as a coping mechanism. Food was, for a period in my life, my best friend. I had to mourn that loss. I had to spend time figuring out who this new person, who would rather go for a walk than for pizza, was. I lost friends in the process (I made new ones after a while). I had to re-learn how to cope with emotions. I had to learn that it was OK to cry rather than eat. I had to learn that it was alright to say I was upset about something out loud, using words rather than food. I had to learn that it was perfectly well and good to stand up for myself rather than eat. I had to learn how to do a lot of things rather than eat. If your change is true and lifelong, you will most likely go through this process, too. Accept it as part of the journey you’re taking. —Vivia Kieswetter
http://fitbottomedgirls.com/2010/10/five-things-i-wish-someone-had-told-me-about-weight-loss/

Diet Calendar Entries for 12 April 2011:
1251 kcal Fat: 17.74g | Prot: 92.21g | Carb: 185.90g.   Breakfast: Oats, Milk (Nonfat). Lunch: Superior Brown Bread, mayo, cabbage, carrot, cottage cheese. Dinner: potato, cauliflower, lamb stew, cucumber, broccoli, lettuce. Snacks/Other: Cranberry & Apple Yoghurt, apple. more...
2184 kcal Activities & Exercise: Driving - 3 hours and 45 minutes, Weight Training (moderate) - 30 minutes, Exercise machine (moderate) - 40 minutes, Resting - 13 hours and 35 minutes, Sleeping - 5 hours and 30 minutes. more...

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Looks like you have YOUR OWN emotional problems. That's ok. You can take out your aggression on other people to make yourself feel better. "Sympathy-whore."  
12 Apr 11 by member: JenniferLynn20
Every1 here has emotional issues. Thats why we use food to cope. However, everyone here is not in denial about their issues. I own my emotional issues. Thats how i deal with them. Im not looking for someone else to validate my feelings. I own them. Im not looking for sympathy. Support yes. Sympathy, no? If you wonder why ur so cranky... eat something :) Look at u... so UPSET bcos i no longer want to give you the attention u crave u had to come look me up. Sad really. 
12 Apr 11 by member: Gabs1972

     
 

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