baacs's Journal, 21 November 2011

Finally disclosed my weight to my boyfriend yesterday. We have been together for coming up to 7 years and I have never ever told him what I weigh (even when I was slim before). Yesterday, however, I just decided it was time. He can see the difference in me, he mentions it virtually everyday and also he isn't stupid, he may have not known exactly what I weigh, but he must have had an idea.

I hadn't told him since I started dieting and exercising purely because I was embarrased, ashamed and didn't want to admit that at my highest I was only about a stone off his weight (he is a whole foot taller than me).

Having now told him, I do feel better, it's no longer a big secret and when I lose weight, instead of saying "I lost a pound", I can say "I'm down to ...". Also, I feel like I'm facing up more to my overweight-ness. I may have been over 200lbs, but I'm doing something about it, and I can't wait until the day when I can say to him "I did it, I reached my goal".


Diet Calendar Entries for 21 November 2011:
1490 kcal Fat: 33.31g | Prot: 49.12g | Carb: 214.49g.   Breakfast: Milk, Blueberry Wheats. Lunch: Sliced Ham (Regular, Approx. 11% Fat), Lettuce, Simply Wholemeal Thick, Coleslaw Reduced Fat. Dinner: Fish Fillet in Crunchy Breadcrumbs, Mini Waffles, Red Cabbage, Brussels Sprouts (Frozen), Green Peas (Frozen), Traditional Onions. Snacks/Other: Japanese Persimmons, Tutti Frutti Collection, Raspberry Ripple Mousse, Love Hearts, Bubbles (Chocolate), Red Table Wine, Hard Candies. more...
3232 kcal Activities & Exercise: Running - 6/mph - 8 minutes, Walking (moderate) - 3/mph - 30 minutes, Driving - 45 minutes, Housework - 15 minutes, Standing - 7 hours, Calisthenics (light, e.g. home exercise) - 1 hour and 30 minutes, Resting - 6 hours and 27 minutes, Sleeping - 7 hours and 25 minutes. more...
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Congrats! It's a big step that you are able to talk about your weight. One of my main reasons to make changes was that I was nearly the same weight as my 6'4" husband. The shame! I recently told him my BF percentage, I don't think he wanted to know. I will tell him again once it's in the normal range. But don't forget, men often underestimate what their partners weigh. And I don't think they care too much. My husband once had to tell someone our weights. He underestimated mine by a stone! And he didn't know that I knew what he had said. 
21 Nov 11 by member: LaraStar
Definitely CONGRATULATIONS. You're doing great. 
21 Nov 11 by member: Helewis

     
 

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