Wonderful 💕 we have our entire life to work on ourselves, let’s start to be happy now ☺️
12 Mar 18 by member: rosio19
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I know it’s heart breaking my own brothers treat my kids differently...cause one has autism... for instance my kids did not get Xmas presents from one of my brothers 🎁 😔 n my nephew did
12 Mar 18 by member: rosio19
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It’s a painful thing but we cannot control that. But we can control giving our kids all the love that we can give them
12 Mar 18 by member: rosio19
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Wow rosio Im so sorry. It is so hard. How can people be so heartless and then believe/act like they aren’t?? Thank you for your comments and reminding me I’m not alone in this struggle!
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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sounds like your family (husband and kids) has your love and appreciation - that is a good thing.
12 Mar 18 by member: tahoebrun
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Thanks tahoebrun. They definitely do!
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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Girl you don't know how close to my home life that sounds but Im older than you so I finally did a process of elimination...no drama anymore... cut them loose...now I don't wish them harm at all but Im not tolerating more pain...healing myself don't have time for the b.s....I'm not suggesting that to you at all though...Whoever you really have that loves you will see you through..I love you ..and your now my family too I feel like and I wont treat that hubby or them babies any different that I treat my own...even better than my own lol funny how we all have so many similarities from pain...it definitely is a major reason we struggle at times with food and discipline to food..xoxoxo ;)
12 Mar 18 by member: maxie4
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It happens with everybody's family to an extent - I need to reach out to mine more, and feel guilty - I actually will give my sis call next couple of days - I mean to call, don't , time gets away, feel guilty and its worse - Got to just do it - I see this crap with people I know, who you work for, what is your status?, blah, blah, blah,
- You be yourself and the family will be themselves, and hey, let them read this stuff because it affects them too -
I really think, if your family is like you in the least bit, they are ROCKIN IT -
This was a great post and it goes into the mix of what we are doing here -
YOU ARE NOT ALONE, YOUR FAMILY IS NOT ALONE - AMEN - GOD BLESS!!!!
12 Mar 18 by member: johnwentzville
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It is very difficult to control what other people do. Some are spiteful, some are demeaning, some just don't get it. Your family is what you, yourself, make of it. We are all your FS family.
12 Mar 18 by member: clay pot baker
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Maxie! I am so ready to be done with the drama and cut them all loose. If we could move far away I would. Problem is my husband runs a side business with his dad and brother and if we could get by without the money from it, he’d pull out, but we can’t right now. I’d love to be your neighbor—I know you’d treat my family well and love us! And we’d do the same for you and you family. We do all share similar struggles and can strengthen and help each other through them. Hugs to you!
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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johnwentzville—thank you so much. Your kind words mean so much to me. I am comforted knowing I’m not alone and others struggle too. My FS family are some of the best people I’ve come in contact with and it is a privilege to communicate with you all.
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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Clay pot baker thank you!! So true...I’m grateful for my awesome FS family!
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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Well we are currently in search of a home in the Gatlinburg Tennessee area...so I will tell hubby to find us a larger place now to accommodate more people lol...it will be like the series the Waltons with every body ..except with all them young people to feed we will be grilling tons of hotdogs and hamburgers and making up some kraft macaroni and cheese...you and I can skip the buns and make our mac and cheese with cauliflower lol;)
12 Mar 18 by member: maxie4
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Lol!! You’re on maxie😁 my kids love Mac and cheese.
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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Theres that pretty smile...all kids do...I'm good with kids and they love me because I'm at their level most of the time and act just as silly ha ha
12 Mar 18 by member: maxie4
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My kids would LOVE you! My name is Melissa by the way🙂 feels weird feeling like we are close but you don’t even know my name!
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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Melissa..thats a beautiful name ..not sure if I had introduced myself ..named after the city I was born in Cincinnati... I'm not sure if I related that to you in a p.m. I usually do ..Cindy Lou Who is me lol no... I'm Cindy... no Lou Who.... but the nurses I work with call me that after the little girl on the Grinch because of my blonde hair.. Well momma Melissa lol we are now another step ahead in our sisterhood...xoxoxo;)
12 Mar 18 by member: maxie4
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Cindy!! Nice to meet you 😁 beautiful name as well. I rarely get on my computer and can’t see a way to check pm messages in the app...I’ll have to check my computer more often.
12 Mar 18 by member: momma6224
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Oh I am so sorry your in laws treat you and your family like that. I have only been a member of FS for a few weeks and can tell you are a wonderful person and I am sure you have a wonderful family. Don't let people get you down. Sending hugs.
12 Mar 18 by member: YBusch
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No worries I think my email is in one of them pms just in case...will resend it to you...:)
12 Mar 18 by member: maxie4
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