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Yesterday I did upper body weight lifting. Things are going better then I originally thought as far as this separation goes... however, I've asked him to stop touching me/kissing me/ check-in on me constantly... we are separated... yet he continues to do so. It's making me feel smothered. I asked why he continues to do this, his reply "i don't want to stop because I'm afraid of turning to the alternatives,"...I asked what he meant by that... "oh you know...I know what I'm capable of, but i dont want you to feel like you have to with me" aka if I don't fulfill his sexual needs someone else will. WE ARE SEPARATED FOR A FREAKING REASON. Do whatchu want...I no longer am responsible for this💅
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187.2 lb
Lost so far: 29.8 lb.
Still to go: 0 lb.
Diet followed reasonably well.
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Diet Calendar Entry for 02 September 2023:
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2 kcal
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Fat: 0.05g | Prot: 0.28g | Carb: 0.09g.
Breakfast: Coffee. more...
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gaining 2.8 lb a week
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02 Sep 23 by member: writingwyo
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Maybe he thinks you will get back together again as you really are not separated by most standards. Why doesn't he move out? If the 2 of you are done then there is no longer any reason for him to be around at all to push himself on you in any way.
02 Sep 23 by member: -MorticiaAddams
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He can't leave, it's his house, I'm not on the mortgage. I'm a stay at home mom, so if he did left, I can't pay bills. I can't leave right away, I have no car as we have only one, plus I'd need help moving out since I'd be taking both kids and need help with some furniture.
I've made it clear that i need space, that we are split up. I'm just trapped until I figure something out.
02 Sep 23 by member: DAZEY_iz_Well
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Whoa, that's a difficult situation. I'm sorry to hear this.
02 Sep 23 by member: erikahollister
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Thanks, I'll get thru it, one step at a time.
02 Sep 23 by member: DAZEY_iz_Well
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Yes writingwyo, in the past I didn't have the ability to express boundaries so I've made great progress with maintaining them this time. We split up once before for 27hrs...o.o
02 Sep 23 by member: DAZEY_iz_Well
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