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Based on the struggles I see here this is a very valid performance management observation of the behaviors of dieters as well as workers.
“As a rule, when somebody "can't" do something, it's because he or she lacks the skill to do it; when somebody "won't" do something, it's because he or she lacks the will to do it.”
There are many “won’t” people here. Sad.
Diet Calendar Entry for 22 December 2021:
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2402 kcal
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Fat: 102.78g | Prot: 136.26g | Carb: 209.69g.
Breakfast: Lipton Pure Green Tea, Great Value Shredded Mild Cheddar Cheese, Cooked Green Peppers and Onions (Fat Added in Cooking), Green String Beans, Coffee, Equate High Performance Protein Shake - Caramel, Pure & Simple Coconut Cooking Spray, Egg, Wegmans Old Fashioned Oats, Sugar in the Raw Stevia in the Raw, Great Value Half & Half. Lunch: Pure Protein S'mores High Protein Bar (Small), French's Classic Yellow Mustard, Joseph's Flax, Oat Bran & Whole Wheat Pita Bread, General Mills Cheerios Oat Crunch Oats N Honey, Oscar Mayer Deli Fresh Oven Roasted Turkey Breast, Fisher Pecan Halves. Dinner: Green String Beans, Cooked Green Peppers and Onions (Fat Added in Cooking), Great Value Boneless Skinless Chicken Thighs, Brown Rice. Snacks/Other: Blue Diamond Lightly Salted Almonds, Great Value Ultra Thin Pretzel Sticks, General Mills Cinnamon Toast Crunch Chocolate Churros, Great Value Decadent Fudge Tracks, Benton's Vanilla Wafers, Wise Foods Ridgies Cheddar & Sour Cream, General Mills Cheerios Oat Crunch Oats N Honey, Kellogg's Rice Krispies Treats (22g), Pinot Noir Wine. more...
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There is no excuse for being a “can’t” person if you’ve been on this site and/or others and you know what you should be doing. You have to be a “can” and “will” person to succeed. That’s all.
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You're approach is the hard part of eating healthier and kicking bad habits that a lot of people don't won't to acknowledge. I think we need "good cop, bad cop" Because everyone reacts and responds differently to each one. Some need the aggressive push, just as some like the coddling approach. I saw what you said to another member about her dieting and gaining 22 lbs [no name needed] but what you said is right. I think everyone has to be honest with themselves. Unfortunately that's not the case. This app is just like FB and Twitter some people are just putting what they think others want to see or hear to fit in. Ultimately it's their loss as they're not really improving their health or life overall. What some have to realize is just being nice and saying the right things won't help the one's who need to be pushed. I still stand by there's a right and wrong way to say everything. Perception plays a large role in this. Just be sure you're coming from the heart to help other's. So they don't take everything as an attack.
23 Dec 21 by member: Joe Not Exotic
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Joe I’m a musician…I play guitar and sing. Over the years I’ve played many open mic nights…you’ve all seen this…a singer songwriter gets up on stage and he/she is terrible, just terrible. As they exit the stage folks start saying, “ Good job up there” “Nice song, buddy” “Way to go” etc…. They’re all lying and giving false hope to the unfortunate talentless performer. I understand being polite, but I’m the guy who will tell them to keep their day job. 🤷🏻♂️
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🤣I feel you and as I said we need good and bad cop. Maybe you'll motivate somone... or hopefully you do.
23 Dec 21 by member: Joe Not Exotic
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I motivated myself that way. Saw this sack of crap in the mirror and told him some truth.
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I have trouble with both can't and won't. We are so very human.
23 Dec 21 by member: Snowwhite100
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24 Dec 21 by member: Jergens123
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Have a very Merry Christmas HK3 and all of the best in 2022 (Just in case I do not post again before the end of the year.)
24 Dec 21 by member: Jergens123
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Merry Christmas to you too, Jergens. Let’s go kick 2022’s ass.
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