nosequepongo's Journal, 11 January 2023

Oh my god! First of all there's nothing wrong with you! I can't believe he did that to you. I would message him like nothing happened and that you had a great time and would love to see him again. He'll probably think he's going to get another free meal out of you. Meet up with him and when the food or drinks arrive excuse yourself to the restroom then leave his butt there with the bill! Serves him right to do that to anyone, especially a single Mom. 

Bueno, ahora ya paso, hay personas y gente ruin, olvídate de él que te sirva de mala esperiencia, no sea que si vuelves a quedar te atraque, como decimos aqui su madre sera una santa pero el sujeto es un hijo de puta,lo siento por ti amiga se fuerte.🤗☮️  

There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. This guy is probably a professional con man. As soon as you said he had to go to the ATM, red flags went off in my head. I hope it didn't cost you a lot for your "date." Speaking of which, you should report him to the dating app for doing that. At the very least, he should be banned for preying on women. You should also make a Police report bc you were robbed. He took your $$ even though he didn't physically take it. Show them his picture, too. I doubt he's on vacation. He probably lives in your city & has committed these crimes before. Be happy you didn't get more involved with him. He could've taken all of your savings, etc. It's terrible, but these "love" connections are breeding grounds for these criminals. I'm sure he was evaluating your wealth during your time together. Think about what he asked you & how he behaved. Maybe you'll be able to see the red flags, & avoid these guys in the future. I hope it wasn't an expensive lesson learned! Get angry about it instead of feeling bad! It will enpower you in the future. Oh, & don't give up on dating. I have to believe that there are still nice guys out there! Sending you empowering hugs!  

Makes me want to cuss and I try to avoid that! Absolutely not...any...ANY of your doing at all. He's a complete jerk and should have his scammy face plastered on billboards if not the street. I am SO sorry this happened. I got dumped by a "date" in Church once. I asked him to meet me there instead of for coffee as was my norm...he pretended to go to the restroom, taking his Bible with him, and never returned. I am 70 now and it's a wonder I remember that episode. Kudos to YOU...it's tough out there and not all men will be arrogant AH's....may you never meet another! 

There is nothing wrong with you. Unfortunately there are quite a few people on the prowl. Give them one chance…. Then move on. If you find someone than look at their behavior over 3-4 months. Trust your instincts and believe in you power to observe small behaviors that seem it of wack. End it if you see these things and save yourself Grief 

There is nothing wrong w you!! Shame on him. Men like this is why I hesitate to try a dating app. He was scum, good riddance. Maybe try some kind of free background check? I wonder if there is one? 

That was 100% planned. As a n outsider looking in, that is so obvious to me.  

I had a date with a women once for dinner, she brought her whole family, and yes I paid, but I never went out with her gain. !!! It goes both ways sometimes !! 

Wow that was a jackass 

I'm so sorry for your experience. And quite a shock. 

How do you honk he was funding his vacation? Not you— you were scammed 

Honk? Word is think. Darn auto correct. Also, skip “on line dating”, get involved with a group of people who enjoy similar activities that you do. Highly recommend walking/hiking groups. 

What a jerk! I agree with Hazel, report him on the dating app. Don't give up because of one bad egg. 

Nothing wrong with you, don't go there. You were just simply his mark for a free meal. I'm sure this POS does that all the time. Need to go to the ATM 🙄🤬 

the deficiency and fault is all his. it had nothing to do with you and all about him and his deceiving ways but just remember you reap what you're so good or bad continue to be the good person that you are and know that you are beautiful and always keep looking for that special person they're out there for you don't let this sour your heart 

What a jerk. He needs to be in jail.  

what a loser!!! sorry that happened to you  

Oh nooo! What an ass! Nothing wrong with you! If he didn’t want to pay for your bill he should’ve just been a man and said it! Be grateful he’s out of your life & don’t let one man ruin it for others. Just be cautious 🙌 

What a cheap piece of crap! Sorry that was done to you. I hope you find a good man. 

wow!!! that was so wrong of him to do you like that, please don't blame yourself, this world is filled with evil people but a real man just don't treat a nice woman like you, that way. be encouraged.