I'm 36 wife, with 2 fur babies. I am having weight loss surgery in August 2015 along with my husband. I and out of options. The incredible choices you make once you decide for surgery has been crazy. Its like the light bulb going off in your head!! I am letting someone cut 3/4 of a major organ out of my body. If thats not motivation I don't know what is. I'm not saying its easy, just saying it makes sense to me.