margaret8728
Joined November 2015
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Weight History

Start Weight
168.0 lb
Lost so far: 4.0 lb

Current Weight
164.0 lb
Performance: losing 0.3 lb a week

Goal Weight
134.0 lb
Still to go: 30.0 lb
I'm sixty years old, an artist and writer who just returned to the US after living in a village in Mexico for six years. I'm slowly adjusting to the different pace and lifestyle here in the US again, and I love Portland, where I am staying with my grown daughter during my transition. I'm an artist, working on small works to sell, and large works for a gallery show in 2016. I have been on lots of steroids and other medications for asthma, and that seems to affect my weight. But mostly, I understand that my relationship with food isn't healthy, so I'm paying attention to which signals trigger me, what choices I make that cause my weight to stay higher than I'd like.

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Support from family
I had a long-time relationship some years back, who complained about my weight and made comments about the things I ate. I went on a diet and when I had lost about 15 pounds, he started complaining as well - about what's the point, who am I getting fit for? His attitude was selfish and at first I was pissed and hurt, of course, but then I thought deeply about his question, and wrote him a "letter" to him with my answer. I gave it to him when I left for work, so he could read it alone and have time to consider. I explained in my letter that I had taken time to think deeply about his questions, so that I could give him an honest answer, and that these were my reasons for losing weight: That more than anything, I wanted to see that look in his eyes again that he had when we first met; that I wanted to buy sexy lingerie for "play nights" we could share and explore new things together, sexually; that I wanted to be able to dress up on Saturday night and look beautiful, so when we went out together he would feel proud with me on his arm. And lastly, that I wanted to grow old with him and hold hands in the park when we were 90. And, I told him that I thought he was the most handsome man in the world, no matter what is weight or age - that he was perfect, to me, that he didn't need to change for me to feel that way. Well I came home to flowers and a much more supportive and humble mate, that's for sure. But let me assure you, if that had not been his response, HE would have been the weight I lost - for good<:}
posted 23 Feb 2016, 12:11
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