Im a big dude. I've always been a tall dude but never a "BIG dude". My mom is getting married in November and her fiance ask me to be the best man. I dont want to be fat in every photo lol. I started working hard at this before the tough mudder here in Charlotte for about 3 months and lost 38 lbs. I felt great! but when my workout buddy moved back to New York I fell off the wagon... so im here to try this again and on my own. wish me luck