Ryojiin's Journal, 06 May 2015

Been having a hard time with eating out lately. We've had friends coming over like every other day for the last few weeks, and the location of our apartment apparently leads to everyone wanting to eat. Within a half block radius, we have 2 Mexican places, Five Guys burgers, Fire House subs, Dunkin Donuts, a grocery store, a drug store, and 2 gas station/convenience stores. Within a 2 block radius, we have a McDonalds, Burger King, Cafe Rio (burritos and Mexican-style food and salads), Wendy's, Chik-fil-a, a local ice cream joint, a frozen yogurt place, Olive Garden, Texas Roadhouse, and just a little beyond that is even MORE food establishments. Within a 10-20 minute walk you could find absolutely ANY sort of food you could ever want. And everybody knows it.

I will say, the Dunkin Donuts is nice for hangover mornings after a party, or a nice little treat after the long walks my fiance and I take every Sunday (weather permitting). We usually get one donut each and an unsweetened iced tea after a 4.5 mile power walk (power being about 4mph so we can still workout and talk at the same time).

So yeah, guess what I've been eating a LOT of lately. It's hard to refuse, too, because you don't wanna be the one calorie-counting "snob" who is "too good" to eat out "on occasion", and I've been accused of lately. We're starting up a new RPG game that's supposed to meet every Thursday and I really, REALLY don't want to be eating take out like that once a week. I offered to make dinners ahead of time if people could gather a bit early and contribute ingredients, but no one seemed very keen on the idea. I'll try talking to my fiance about it more, seeing as he's going to be GM-ing this game and has a bit more influence than I do.

And I'm kind of not a big believer in the "just order something healthy" option for going out. That's not always an option. Portions are WAY too big, and I don't want to be eating the same lunch for like 3 straight days to finish it all, and even salads can frequently creep up toward or even beyond the 1,000 calorie mark, for ONE MEAL! Fiance and I could split something, sure, we usually do, but I still think it's just too many calories, I'm DEATHLY afraid of food poisoning so it's hard for me to trust people making my food, and it's just getting expensive, even if we do split something.

I'm just kinda tired of it. Gonna start telling people we're not going to hang out anymore, other than our already established and planned Thursday game nights, and just going to make dinner for myself and Fiance. If the others wanna eat out, they can. Or if they want to partake of whatever I make, they have to pay me in cash per serving, or contribute toward it's making ahead of time. So there.

Diet Calendar Entries for 06 May 2015:
1153 kcal Fat: 57.60g | Prot: 43.42g | Carb: 112.41g.   Lunch: Calavo Avocado, Hidden Valley Ranch Salad Dressing, Feta Cheese, Eating Right Peeled Baby-cut Carrots, Young Green Onions, Green Peppers, Eating Right Spring Mix Salad Greens. Dinner: Birds Eye Steamfresh Broccoli, Cauliflower & Carrots, Tyson Foods Boneless Skinless Chicken Breasts. Snacks/Other: Franz Raspberry Filled Donuts, Juanita's Foods Tortilla Chips, Tostitos Zesty Bean & Cheese Dip (Medium), Banana. more...
1875 kcal Activities & Exercise: Insanity - 30 minutes, Pilates - 1 hour and 10 minutes, Resting - 14 hours and 20 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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If I don't want to eat out, I find it easier to tell friends that I already ate. Just stick to your plan. What kind of friend wouldn't support your goals? 
06 May 15 by member: LeviAJones
It's kinda surprising the amount of people who don't support it. The whole crabs in a bucket mentality, I think. Or at least poke fun at me for it. One friend brought over peanut butter and white chocolate no-bake cookies last week for our game, and his reasoning? "I know you're counting calories, I know this will cause you guilt and stress, and I like to create chaos." He meant it to be silly, sort of in-character for what we're doing, but I deliberately didn't have one purely because he said such things. I had my fruit-infused water and snacked on my game-indulgence food: dark chocolate M&M's. I guess it just frustrates me that most of our friends are fat guys or girls, and the whole concept of losing weight, counting calories, and not having EVERYTHING be a cheat day/cheat food just seems sort of crazy to them.  
06 May 15 by member: Ryojiin

     
 

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