madanjen's Journal, 17 May 2014

Nothing gained, nothing lost. Could be worse. Assuming I'm still at my current weight on Monday, my goal for next week will be a little loftier and one thing will make it easier. I've stopped dating a girl that was really bad for both my long term health and short term weight loss. I will try to lose 5 pounds next week and really work hard to do so.

Though I love red wine, I don't do a whole lot of other drinking; maybe a sapphire martini or some scotch once in a while. Though she was not an exclusive girlfriend, we went out often and she would get really drunk and tried to get me to do the same. I like a party as much as most but I set limits which I try to follow. When I said I couldn't see her anymore she thought I meant I didn't like her and was really hurt, even after I told her why. I did say if she can just tone it down, we can date again.

Have you ever had someone that was not right for you at the time or was a hindrance to getting healthy? Did you ever let them back in your life?
228.8 lb Lost so far: 40.2 lb.    Still to go: 63.8 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.

Diet Calendar Entries for 17 May 2014:
410 kcal Fat: 11.87g | Prot: 24.12g | Carb: 50.46g.   Breakfast: Safeway French Bread, Gala Apples, Tomatoes, Land O' Frost Premium Honey Ham, Egg, Coffee, Sugar. more...
3223 kcal Activities & Exercise: Shadow boxing - 20 minutes, Weight Training (moderate) - 29 minutes, Bicycling (slow) - 11/mph - 35 minutes, Resting - 14 hours and 36 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...
steady weight

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Not as a significant other.... don't need someone trying to drag me down as a person...been there before, never again.  
17 May 14 by member: wholefoodnut
I dated a guy for about 4 Years a little like your story. I didnt talk to him for a good year. He moved 3 hours away and now we talk on phone pretty much everyday. He is real supportive of my plan and goals.. 
17 May 14 by member: faith2015
That's good Wendi. Maybe talking on the phone is what I need to do with this girl. I like most things about her but have things I need to do. I guess if I was one that is lacking in companionship I may think differently but I have plenty of friends who I date when time allows. And wholefood, you are right, it could drag a person down. Hopefully I inspired a change in her thinking at least. 
17 May 14 by member: madanjen

     
 

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