WisteriaSky233's Journal, 30 March 2022

You can talk to me about your problems, I don't have many people to talk to either so I don't mind if it isn't food related. I don't get why some people feel the need to make rude comments, you're already going through a hard time. 

you must do what's right for you. if he can't do his part he's not being a husband!! Thats not your fault!!! 

reach out for help I'm going through marriage issues as well but doing counseling on my own once a week it helps  

Try to take a break from your thoughts. You are not alone in your feelings. There are others who are going through similar struggles. You are not alone. It is your thoughts about what is happening right now that are causing your suffering. But thoughts can be controlled. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself, of all your accomplishments. Make plans for yourself that don't hinge on others. Things will get better if you can see past this.  

Even if other people are not being good to you, please be kind to yourself. Please take care of yourself and your health. It's really hard in these times, please hang in there. 

Damn second time in just two days I've seen a horrifically rude comment (from not-so-sweet kitty person - RUDE) you don't deserve that. We're all here for community and support, I trust what you say and I'm so sorry you've had to deal with people like that. A place like this should be free of them, we're all in this together. I feel so sorry for those who would see your post here and respond with anything other than positivity; they must have some problems way beyond phsyical health / weight in their lives. I would ask them to keep that shit to themselves. Venting is OK. If you don't like these posts, scroll or leave it's not hard to not say rude things. Wisteria - wishing you the best. Hang in there! We're all here for community and support, I trust what you say and I'm so sorry you've had to deal with rude people. A place like this should be free of that, we're all in this together. I feel so sorry for those who would see your post here and respond with anything other than positivity. Those people must have some problems way beyond weight in their lives. I would ask them to keep that shit to themselves. this is a public forum we're ALL here to vent / cheer / all of the things that come with any community. Keep it positive.  

Whenever you find yourself going thru hell -- keep going. All things pass.  

My heart hurts, putting myself in your shoes, as I read your post. A friend of mine suggested I read a book that helped her so much in her 10year marriage, with similar emotional battles and misunderstandings. She gifted it to me as a wedding gift (I’m newly wed, so feel free to ignore my comments) and the title of the book shocked me (especially knowing what she’d been through). Even so, I started reading it and the material has been eye opening. It’s called “The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands,” by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. I wonder what your opinion and review might be… Would you agree with my good friend or disagree? At the end of the day, I keep in mind, especially as I write this, that I don’t know you or your true pain and heartbreak. I do wish to leave you with kindness and a listening ears. I’ll keep you in mind. Be well.  

Erq I saw most of that post, and going back won't show me anything - you can tell rude comments have been deleted from this one and it's probably safe to presume the negativity she was referring to in the past post has also since been deleted. I was responding to not-so-sweet's now-deleted "get over yourself" comment. That was rude, I called it out. That's the end of it. I don't need history to know if that comment was rude or not. Looks like you and or the other person may be incorrectly assuming she's saying _your_ comments were the rude ones. Maybe it was other comments you didn't even see that have been deleted. I don't know. I give her the benefit of the doubt and refrain from such rudeness, which is all I'm saying others should be doing.  

Faaip ur right, that kitten person was a bully to me too!! I just don't want bullying. That's pretty much it😊 

Yes, I deleted the rude people. I wasn't saying everyone was rude. I removed most of the posts since 3/7 now.