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So my bf is going through a difficult time economically at this point, working three under-compensated jobs (one is really volunteer work, but it does offer a rent discount) and only barely squeaking by. Occasionally I have to keep odd hours to spend time with him, and I'm generally more tired lately. He's tired most of the time. The thing is that I am not sure how much of my tiredness is my sleep schedule and how much is the fact that I have not been drinking enough water. I have to get on top of this and I wanted to note that for myself here in my journal. I am also trying to get back into a healthy eating routine. Having this bf is a challenge for me diet-wise... not in a major way because he is so supportive and loving, but our different eating habits are a challenge for me. Last night I'd gotten down half a spear of asparagus before he came over, and when I kissed him he reacted in pain from the burning sensation the asparagus caused him. He is allergic to so many different things, and his diet is very limited. Specifically, he likes to eat pizza, chicken, pasta, frosted flakes, diet soda, fat-free ice cream, cookies, and not much else. He's defensive about his diet because it's so hard for him to find things to eat that he believes he ought to give himself free reign among the available choices. To some extent I can't really blame him. (although on the other hand, if he is going to limit himself beyond his allergies, why couldn't it be to healthier food?) I feel bad for the poor guy because these limitations must be so hard for him. But I am disappointed that we can't cook together without one of us making a compromise and I worry that his low-protein, soda-only-for-hydration diet is affecting his energy level and mood. How can I best encourage him to pursue better food choices without trampling on his right to make his own decisions? And if he's not interested in being influenced, I just need to remember to insist on veggies and health food for me, no matter what he does. Focus, Cindy, focus!
I feel so skinny lately! I can't believe how small my rear end is. :)
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