angel_face0145's Journal, 28 September 2019

Old song lyrics..."Just Walk On By, Don't Stop" I guess today it would be Just Scroll On By. My daughters saying is Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys. I try to follow it here. You be Angel and do what is best for you. 

I don't know what you're referring to but you should call it out when you see it and report the post. I'm new and I see supportive post and comments all the time but I don't read every post or comment.  

Every site sees its fair amount of trolls. FS is not the exception. See it, report them! We all struggle and we don't need someone trying to mess with our heads. 

Most of the time blatant fat shaming and trolling on here is dealt with pretty quick. I didn't see what you're referring to, so I can't say that definitively in this case, but point it out and we can all report it.  

Not sure what you are referring to, but there seemed to be a couple of trolls hanging out yesterday, and hopefully they have been shutdown. Sadly, I agree that in the last few years there has been an increase in jackasses (not just on FS, but in general). 

Some people have a heart of war. They see others as objects and don’t care how they treat them and are Narcissistic. Most people have a heart of peace and we view people as human beings with feelings. Best thing to do is ignore them. Let them make themselves look horrible. 

💕Chris 💯  

I concur @chris. It’s easy to say things when you see there is zero repercussions. Sadly, those people (and I have to include myself on occasion) don’t see the true repercussions inside ourselves. Our negative words eating us inside and hurting someone else. I just don’t involve myself in spats to avoid the “I’m rubber, you’re glue” arguments. 

I see mostly narcissistic comments, lots of "eat my way or you are stupid" stuff, plus weird ideas about other peoples' way of eating. We tried to institute "Mind Your Own Plate" and "if you can't say something supportive, don't comment". However there are several who just won't go along . . . 

I just say, “Eat how you’re going to eat”. Be healthy, be happy. If you feel like you need to gain or lose then you need to find what works for you. FYI, I’m still hoping the science will support the diet plan from “Romy and Michele's High School Reunion”. Fat free gummy worms, candy corn, and jelly bean diet. 😂 I think I’d ace that.  

Nothing surprises me anymore on here. I know there are many fake accounts hopefully it wasn't real because that is the lowest of lows.  

I did report them, sad part is it was a real account of someone I was following but not anymore. I don't see the post anymore so it must of been taken down. They stole a picture of another member, sharing their results and was mocking them about their size.  

I agree that's just awful 

Oh my... that's ugly behavior. You did good reporting, I can't imagine what would drive someone to that level of cruelty. *sigh*  

Wow, stealing other people's photos is unethical, at best, but then using a person's pictures to mock them, that's about as dirty as it gets. I'm glad I didn't see that because I wouldn't let them get away with it.  

What app did you see this?  

Right here on fatsecret.  

Wow! So, you reported it and it disappeared? Who else saw it? 

I did report it as soon as I seen it, idk who else seen it, but I have seen a couple post this morning about FS not being a supportive place so maybe some others have seen it also. Their was no comments and the post was only up 2 minutes when I reported it, but it could of been up longer, someone else had to of seen it.  

I think it would be fair for you to disclose who did that. I understand if you don't want to, but I think we all have the right to know who would steal and mock like that.