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Don't feel so exited today. Work really sucks. The two ladies in my office are really mean! Come on now. Yesterday they were complaining about the bathroom , now its the fridge and microwave were open/ dirty. I said, " Oh sure, I am probably going to get the blame for that," and one of them asked why I thought that. Well,I said, you usually blame me for everything. I know they just don't care for me because I have been here the least amount of time and have been promoted and raised more than them. It's so fusterating b/c I work really hard and like my job and they really bring me down all time. I walked into a s@#t storm with all the lines ringing and them just hanging out in the kitchen. When I told my boss, she brushed it off and said unless it happens all the time, then I should just answer the phones! It does happen all the time, its just that no one ever says anything. I don't want to come across as negative or defensive, but I just feel like cr@p and a push over . The reason for this rambling on is when I feel this way, I tend to over eat the wrong things and I am worried I will let my emotions drive me to eat bad carbs.I just want a brownie or chips!! To top it all off, they planted a BIG birthday cookie right across my desk. WTF!! They know I don't eat that stuff but they keep offering!! I am sure part of this whining is pms. But none the less. I feel horrible. I am writing because I recognize I have a bad relationship with food and I just don't want to stray!!
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You have made the right choice. I does help to vent and there are lots of people here willing to write to you so you don't stray. You are a strong person and you will get through this. Next time they plant a cookie on your desk, toss it in the trash right in front of them. Show them just how strong you are and they aren't going to bring you down with them. What goes around WILL come around for them. Try your darndest to concentrate on your job. Your good at that and wait it out. Their day is comming and you will be the one laughing at them. Hang in there and sorry it took so long for me to get back to you. My fingers just don't want to work today.:)
16 Dec 10 by member: LauPug1
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Some people are so stupid. In that I mean they haven't a clue what life is all about. They are acting like teenagers. People that treat others
in a bad way usually have a bad life a head of them. Belive me it will
come back to haunt them later. Have as good a day as you can. Bren
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i truly believe in karma, so you keep on being a terrific person, don't stoop to their level and you will be rewarded :)
16 Dec 10 by member: sophie99
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You've taken a HUGE step in realizing that it's the emotions....anger, frustration, etc... that are making you crave the food that's not on plan right now. I'm sure it's jealousy that's fueling the snide remarks and the food temptations they're putting in front of you that they know will bother you. Not a whole lot you can do to change jealousy. Just continue to do an exceptional job, enjoy being 24 pounds lighter (!!), try your best to ignore those sillies, and look for friends in other areas!! It's always a disappointment when our coworkers are not working as a team with us but Laurie's right....their day is coming.
16 Dec 10 by member: Sandy701
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Andee, bravo for coming here to vent, instead of eating bad stuff. And I too believe in the golden rule: what comes around, goes around. Their turn will come.
16 Dec 10 by member: hbkim
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Thanks. I am sure they all have miserable home lives with husbands that pick on them thats why they have to be bullies here at work. I can't even believe that I let it get to me. I am usually pretty good at ignoring them. I am going to have the last laugh when i see their fat a$$es waddling down the hall. Just imagining all the carbs they are polluting their bodies with! Take that!
16 Dec 10 by member: redgirl1974
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Hahahaha!! Shame on those sharks. My boss just came into the office and told me I could leave two hours early tomorrow!! In front of them!! YAY! I usually work 11-7 but closing early so I get to work 11-5. YAY! They have to work 8-5. Na na na boo boo! they can stick their heads in doo doo! I get to go home early and wait for my beautiful son and step sons to get there!! I can't wait to see my angels !! That just made me feel awesome!! Gonna plan to cook a dinner with tons of good healthy stuff!! EVERYONE HERE WAS RIGHT!! they got what was coming to them. One of them said " oh no fair". Its not fair to be ugly to people either. God doesn't like ugly!! HAHAHA
16 Dec 10 by member: redgirl1974
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Yay, I'm so glad you get to go home early and they don't. Enjoy your
boys. And have a wonderful weekend. Bren
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So happy for you that those ding dongs at work had to stay at work while you got to go home early. The bosses sometimes really do know what is going on. They just can't say anything because they have to keep the peace with everyone. It's true that they are jealous. Just be yourself and stay strong. You have alot of friend here to support you. When you do a job with all you have it sometimes goes unappreciated. However, in the long run your boss will keep giving you promotions because you can handle it. Enjoy your boys and have a great weekend.
16 Dec 10 by member: Cindy Thompson
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Thank you. Looking forward to this evening !!
17 Dec 10 by member: redgirl1974
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Well speaking of brats at work. Today we had a meeting about breaks. One guy kept complaining about everyone and now we all have to have designated break times! I work in the office of a warehouse and we get so busy that we never really had set tiomes so we could just poke out whenever as long as we had all our work done or when we got a free moment. Now we have to take breaks at 10am and 2pm. We also can't work through our lunches anymore so that cuts another 30min out of our day because we all still leave at the same time. we already went down to a straight 40 and sometimes less. So I guess that means we will lose another 2.5 hours a week! This guy whines ALL the time about things. He always has a problem with somebody, he can't just work and go home! I wish they would go ahead and let him transfer like he wants.
17 Dec 10 by member: MISSEL1
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Sounds like real jerk!! I wonder what he is like at home!! Some should put
a laxative in his coffee! cry baby!
20 Dec 10 by member: redgirl1974
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