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Well it is Saturday, time for gymnastics with my grandson, fixing a bunch of crap around the house and then the big one How do you know your relationship of 35 years is over and is it time to get your life in order and leave? Not trying to be a downer just at that crossroad in life when there is nothing more to lose. Going to be a long weekend I feel it coming.
LMJ good luck in the race tomorrow. :)
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Breakfast: Coffee, Milk (1% Lowfat with Added Vitamin A and Nonfat Solids), Body Fortress Super Advanced Whey Protein - Chocolate (42g). Lunch: Sara Lee 100% Whole Wheat Bread (50g), Skippy Creamy Peanut Butter. Dinner: Thin Crust Pizza with Meat. Snacks/Other: Wal-Mart Bakery Soft Peanut Butter Cookies, Red Delicious Apples. more...
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There is a reason why some couples get back together again some time after they have broken up. Sometimes you realize what you had after you lost it or maybe it's really time for you to pick up your things and move on with your life. It's not a decision to make litely.
09 Aug 14 by member: snezica
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Sounds like you're having a midlife crisis. LOL!
But hey, you get to call it "that crossroad in life", no problem. :)
A 35 year relationship is really worth fighting for. You have built so much history together. So many memories (good ánd bad ones). Please seek professional help (couple's therapy?) before you decide to move on!!! Just to make sure that you've done everything and considered every angle before you made your decision.
10 Aug 14 by member: sachakay
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Thank you very much for the advice. It is not a midlife crisis if it was that I would actually be having fun with it. Right now my life is fairly miserable and unhappy.
10 Aug 14 by member: Rockiesfan
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Ehm. What in the word "crisis" makes it sound like having fun? I understand that your life is miserable and unhappy. You should have confidence in yourself! You've managed to shape up your body, rest assured that you'll be capable that you'll manage to shape up your life as well. The fun always follows a crisis...
10 Aug 14 by member: sachakay
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Well I think when most people have a mid life crisis they go out buy a car, have an affair something to that sort, which I have done none of those and don't have the desire to do either. Yes I am working on myself mind, body and soul
10 Aug 14 by member: Rockiesfan
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Hm. From the way I look at it? People with a midlife crisis come to a point in life where they realize that they are unhappy in their lives and try to make it better. In many different ways. Somehow they mostly end up by "ending a relationship", for they blame the relationship for everything that's wrong in their lives.
I'm too young for a MLC, but I've been there. And I blamed my husband for all that was wrong in my life. And yes, he moved out on my request.
After a couple of months, I came to the conclusion that all the bad things in my life were not caused by him, but that he was basically the only thing left in my life that was really good. We've worked it out. And we're still married. :)
Of course a relationship can be responsible for holding you back in life. But just try to make the changes in life that makes it better for you and see what impact that will have on your relationship. Hope this all makes sense.........
10 Aug 14 by member: sachakay
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10 Aug 14 by member: Rockiesfan
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Wishing you a lot of strength and wisdom at this point in life!!!
10 Aug 14 by member: sachakay
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Thanks for the well wishes...and know they are reflected back as wishes for you.
10 Aug 14 by member: LMJ114
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