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today is just one of those horrible terrible days! my husband is at the root of it all; he knew i wanted to go to the gym and left me home with no car and 3 kids in the morning. here i am now with the car and a napping baby, why don't you go now he hollers? dumb*ss the gym does not have babysitting now and they will close soon, and we already went over the fact that the class i wanted to do already passed!
then there's the dress i'm wearing to my cousin's wedding tomorrow. so i managed to order and receive a dress in the mail that looks decent except the fact that it has to be taken in. again another one of those impossible tasks for the week.
there's also my son's suit. . . ..
now, here's the problem with my belly: the measurement around my belly button is 35" but my biggest part of my belly, the high part that keeps me looking pregnant or like a barrel is 39"!!!! it totally sticks out . ... .
it's ok every day is another chance to have another suck-ey day!
Diet Calendar Entry for 07 June 2014:
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346 kcal
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Fat: 19.39g | Prot: 14.76g | Carb: 33.10g.
Breakfast: Bob's Red Mill Hulled Hemp Seed, Medjool Dates, Walnuts, Silk Pure Almond Milk - Unsweetened Original, Apricots, Blackberries, Good Sense Raw Sunflower Seeds, Tnuva Light Feta Cheese. more...
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Relax don't make him stress you out. Please enjoy yourself tomorrow. My x was the opposite I would be able to go but would stress thinking he left everyone home or well the mind plays.
07 Jun 14 by member: deaby16
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When I was this weight before - before I gained 100 lbs - I did not have a belly, but now I do, so I feel your pain :( At least your dress has to be taken in and not out :)
07 Jun 14 by member: ChristyLA
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Mmmmmaybe your dh is afraid you will look too good if you lose weight, get fit and look amazing!!! His insecurity maybe poking through....so he is sabotaging you either intentionally or subconsciously.
07 Jun 14 by member: wholefoodnut
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Oh Tulip ... I just hate those days. May you be granted the serenity that you need right now. You can only control you .... deep breaths my dear. Sending you hugs.
07 Jun 14 by member: JennBuck61
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I just want to curl into a ball and cry . . . and cry and cry.....
07 Jun 14 by member: Tulipgirl6
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Don't sweat it now and let it all aggravate you. If it's a "mommy" pooch...spanx. Hanes has a footless version in CVS/Walgreens for fewer than $10USD. I tried it and -even though I was 50lbs over the stated weight- they stretched to fit, smoothed tummy and worked! Deep breaths and move on :)
07 Jun 14 by member: LuC2
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I second wholefood's comment! Also, with your last comment, I think you need an 'Appreciation diary' just to find one or two goods things about every day. It'll turn things around for you. Negativity breeds negativity, and attracts similar thoughts, which in turn puts you in a negative state of mind. And this, in turn, doesn't help. But if you can see a bit of light in your life, it'll shine through even more. Trying it out doesn't cost anything....what have you got to lose. I wish you the best.
07 Jun 14 by member: NowIunderstand
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Wish I had something really helpful to say but there are just times that a hug from a loved one even the touch of someone's hand means so much more. Who is in your support network that can be there like that? Let me send out a psychic hug. There……that was for you.
07 Jun 14 by member: ashock34
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its all in the mind ... you can fuss about your husband or you can just sigh and love him for who he is, making your own plan and prepare better next time. You can fuss about taking in a dress, you can also rejoice that you lost enough weight that it has to be taken in. keep getting off that weight and the beer-barrel will turn into a sixpack. and finally you can look at tomorrow as a suck-ey day, but tomorrow hasn't happened yet, so how do you know. Life live to the fullest, look into the future with hope!
08 Jun 14 by member: puhpine
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08 Jun 14 by member: wholefoodnut
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@puhpine - again, I concur with wholefoodnut
08 Jun 14 by member: NowIunderstand
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thanks for your support everyone! I somehow made it through the day and made the best of it . . . .
10 Jun 14 by member: Tulipgirl6
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