Im approching my forties married with two boys. My husband is in the military and has been deployed three times within the past. That left me total responsibility of home. I think I used this of separation to eat eat eat. Everytime I got up to the bathroom i find myself in the kitchen looking for snacks.

Recently Ive had to have gallbladder surgery. After th surgery I became sick. I could not eat nor drink anything well guess what I lost 20lbs. I lost 20lbs only because I was Sick. Well i felt I would take advantage of this opportunity has a head start of many more pounds to go. It has been very difficult my parents came and helped me out tremendously. i didnt have to worry about anything including dinner it was well prepared. Now since they have left I have to make dinner let me remind you that we were a fast food family
so im really trying to follow the path of my parents with home cooked food but sometimes i just dont know what to cook. ive managed to maintain about 17 of the 20lbs lost but its scary im gong up instead of down. So i need a support group i do have support a work but its split some of us are counting points while others are asking whats for lunch do you want a piece of hero? So i have to fight the temptation