Mandie160's Journal, 18 December 2007

Hey Guys,
It's a beautiful day! I have been dieting very well. I am still wanting stuff though. I went out with my friend on yesterday and he was really trying to get me to eat out at my favorite restaurant. I got so pissed after he kept asking and asking, he then finally got the picture! OMG! He was actually circling the restaurant! I couldn't believe him! He kept asking me if I wanted to just go in and see what else they served. I looked at him and said to him...."NO!NO!NO"! I mean guys, what part of NO! did he not get! I was so upset, that I didn't even want to go skating. I told him that I just wanted to go home. I didn't eat well yesterday and I blame him for that! I suggested to him that we go somewhere where we can have something like tuna salad/chicken salad on a bed of lettuce, but he was pretending like he was looking for a restaurant that served something like that but at the same time still making circles around MY RESTAURANT! He really just messed up our entire day!....I'm sorry guys, I know you don't want to hear all this whinning but I wanted to cheat so bad yesterday and he didn't make it any easier! He and I both are BIG eaters so it's hard to not cheat every once in a while. But he knows that I can't be fat for Christmas! He knows that I will be miserable if I'm not where I want to be by then! I am suppose to meet his parent Christmas also! This is also freaking me out! But! I have to calm down, I have to not worry because I will stop losing weight if I start to worry. Good Luck to Everyone! Stay strong Guys!
187.4 lb Lost so far: 17.6 lb.    Still to go: 17.4 lb.    Diet followed 100%.
losing 9.3 lb a week

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Maybe he's afraid that if you lose too much weight that you will want to lose him as well. Some guys think that if we do anything to improve our appearance it's because we're on the prowl for a new man. It's rather short sighted on their part, but some guys can be a tad insecure about their relationships. You may want to bring this up with him when you aren't mad and let him know that you are doing this to feel good about yourself and not because you want to attract some other guy. You stay strong too!! 
18 Dec 07 by member: slease
Girl I know what you mean about folks trying to derail you!! My mother and father in law (God love em') BUT they are the world's worst!!! They say things like "You aren't even fat" ... what I tell them is "Yeah, and not eating that mess is why"!! They're idea of going on a diet is to put the french fries in the oven instead of the fryer, lol. You did good by not going in... so be proud of yourself and let that be a reason to have a wonderful day!! 
18 Dec 07 by member: lorik
Sometimes people say those things because they think that we want to be talked into it. If you are consistant then eventually they will stop asking. Make sure you communicate when you plan to go off your diet so they know when to be supportive and when to back off. Otherwise they can get confused. 
18 Dec 07 by member: sararay

     
 

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