So I finally gained a pound. Glad it took this long too. I woke up with a headache this morning. I seem to be getting headaches all the time lately. I mean seriously I didn't have one for 3 days and I was thrilled about it. Tomorrow I am 16 weeks and I only should have a few more weeks before my belly rounds out and quits looking like I am a chubby person. I should find out this week if I have been approved for medical through the state or if we make too much.
We are definitely a middle class family. I can qualify for certain things but not others. We just teeter on the borders. Odd thing is I never feel like we don't have more than enough. But it seems like when ever someone needs to borrow money they ask us which is confusing to me. Our family is much larger then anyone I know and many of this people bring in close to what we do or more so why are they so broke. I had two people try to hint they needed to borrow money and one still owes us 40 for many months ago. I couldn't offer just because we had a tight week. My hubby and I went out to eat, went bowling and had coffee at Starbucks for a date night. That was like 75 bucks but that is also the first time we have went out in over a year so it was worth it. We had a lot of fun and got to spend time together which has been very little with him leaving for work about 4:15 every afternoon considering he doesn't get up until 2. Even then he is usually studying or preparing he sermon or stuff for church. Too many people waste too much money on cigarettes and alcohol. I mean how can you have money for that stuff but still need money for gas?... I feel like sometimes I get side tracked talking/typing. Lol.
I had a kid tell me Sunday I was too fat to wear the shirt I had on and he is like 10 or 11. I was like uh no I am not I am pregnant my belly is going to stick out. Then he said well you have too many kids. And I was like who are you to decide how many kids I can have. He persisted to argue with me anyhow. The part that really here's my chain is his mom was standing right there and said nothing. People need to teach their children RESPECT!!! Finally got my husband to boot the 15 year old out and back with his parents. Thank goodness! Took him not being respectful or checking in or asking before he just did whatever he wanted. Plus all the other crap he did in the time frame he was here The 15 year old is also the older brother of the kid who I was just talking about at church. In case I failed to fill you in the 15 year old got stuck here because the family was living in a shelter and he got in trouble and they kicked him out. His option were our house or foster care. His family now has a 1 bedroom apartment. They wanted him to continue to stay here since they are a family of 5. But I just couldn't handle the disrespect any more. It is their kid and their problem I shouldn't have to be dealing with a kid that I didn't raise when there is no reason they can't. Ok I feel better now.
