debrafrederick's Journal, 09 July 2016

Done! Day 5 complete! I'm still not hungry so I am going to leave it alone for the night and see what tomorrow brings...mainly because I don't feel like cooking, it's too damned hot to turn on the stove!!!!! I'm having another one of those on top of the world days actually. Mom called me this morning while I was at work and asked me to go grocery shopping with her. I told her that I had no interest in food at the moment but I would go to keep her company. Turns out, she wanted me to choose her foods. She said she is going to give LCHF a try. So I walked her around the outer edges of the grocery store and got her a weeks worth of fresh whole foods. Coconut oil, butter, heavy cream, brazil nuts, walnuts, whole chickens, pork roast, hamburger, cauliflower, kale, lettuce, tomatoes, mushrooms, yard eggs (from my house) sour cream, cheese, pepper, onions, avocados, cherries and strawberries. I had to peel her away from the watermelon and cantaloupe in the produce area, the berries were all the fruits she can have right now and I bought snack size baggies so I could portion them out for her. I could not convince her to leave the two twelve packs of Diet Rite soda behind, I let it alone because she came to me on her own and asked for help. No need to force any more changes on her just yet. I made her up some menus and helped portion out the fruits. She stays up all night and sleeps most of the day so her breakfast is usually after 1 pm and her dinner starts at 2 pm and continues till bed time. I gave her an eating window of 1pm to 8pm and nothing in between. I have instructed her to take her blood sugar once before she gives herself her first injection of insulin and if her blood sugar is not high, don't do the injection. She has a bad habit of just getting up, giving herself a shot and knocking her blood sugar down too low. She goes to see the Doctor Monday morning and I told her to take the menus with her and see if the Dr wants to adjust her insulin or if she has tips on how to adjust it according to her fasting glucose readings....but what it boils down to is...she is of her own accord making an attempt to do something. This is not the first time she has done this, she started out once before and then got all upset when her lipid panels were poor and her weight was up, she was cheating and did not want to admit to it, so she said the Doctor told her to get off of that diet....this is the same doctor I was seeing back then and he has since been replaced. Misty will monitor her the way she needs to be monitored for this to work. Once again, I am not sharing my Fat Secret with her, call me selfish if you wish...but I don't want to share my support group with her. Things I have shared with her before caused issues and I don't need her judging me here too. So she is set up with MFP for tracking her food. I gotta have some place to complain about her! But I am happy that she is once again motivated to do SOMETHING! She was showing me off at Walmart...I have not been in the pharmacy in a while and she grabbed my shirt and pulled it tight around my waist and was telling the pharmacist...look at her..she has lost so much weight. Bless her heart, she is proud of me even though she won't just say it to me! We have Mother-Daughter issues....what can I say? So a good day here on the farm!

Diet Calendar Entries for 09 July 2016:
57 kcal Fat: 5.14g | Prot: 0.85g | Carb: 0.28g.   Breakfast: Land O'Lakes Heavy Whipping Cream, Coffee. more...
2896 kcal Activities & Exercise: Resting - 7 hours, Standing - 6 hours, Sleeping - 8 hours, Sitting - 3 hours. more...

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You're amazing! 
09 Jul 16 by member: kpwcalories
Good going! I hope she sticks this time. 
09 Jul 16 by member: PhillySue
My daughter decided that she had gained too much weight during her broken foot and then nursing school. She asked me to make her a list of what I ate and how I made it, since i had lost 100 pounds. With that and starting at a gym she got good results. Then she became a gym rat and looks really good and is much stronger. We can be a beacon of light. 
09 Jul 16 by member: msbuggirl
That is so hopeful she asked for help. Sometimes it takes two or three false starts for us to get it. 
09 Jul 16 by member: HCB
You don't have to share everything! A community of her own is perfectly fine. :-) good idea letting the diet rite slide. It may have been too much. I lost my mom due to complications fom diabetes. I'd give anything to go grocery shopping with her. You can be a great example. 
09 Jul 16 by member: bdmgoggins
Nice going as every little bit helps! 
09 Jul 16 by member: SjF60
MsBug, glad to hear your daughter followed you to getting healthy :) The whole thing behind being healthy is being around to enjoy life with the ones you love. We all say, do this for yourself and while that is extremely important, it does us no good to get healthy if we outlive the ones we love and we wind up healthy and alone so I am all for making it a family thing, we want to keep them around longer too! 
09 Jul 16 by member: debrafrederick
Enjoy your Sunday Ms Debra ! ☺😺 
09 Jul 16 by member: Maine coon
Thanks MC! I think we will be building a deck tomorrow.....I was hoping for rain so I could just watch the wood get wet :)...but I will probably be out there in the blazing hot sun carrying 14 foot deck boards! 
09 Jul 16 by member: debrafrederick
I here yoy Debra we have been 95 degrees at night in Florida, I can't wait until we start getting rain again 
09 Jul 16 by member: Maine coon
You've been a wonderful example to your mum and that's often the best way to influence people. I'm full of admiration of your patience with her. 
10 Jul 16 by member: Doobrie
She's lucky to have you to turn to for guidance! And nice to know that she's proud of you. My mom died of breast cancer 18 years ago. I was thinking of her yesterday. Before she died she asked me to please lose weight, for my health. I was thinking that she'd have been pleased that I'm working on it and making good progress. At the time I was annoyed that she was putting pressure on me -- as if I didn't know I was fat. But in the long run it still means a lot to me that she loved me and cared about me. 
10 Jul 16 by member: erikahollister
Awesome work, sister.  
10 Jul 16 by member: jimmiepop
Day 5 brings incredible balance and peace of mind. Your mom asking for help was nothing short of a miracle. 
10 Jul 16 by member: LadyinDenim
Love that your mom asked for help from you, and that you have the tools to share with her. Inspiring post, sweetie! 
10 Jul 16 by member: mskestrela

     
 

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