I like this photo moo. I am cutting the cord with my son. We both need to socially distance ourselves. Totally toxic to each other and not being fair with my other two daughters. So far it has been good in a way I pray to God for my son for guidance and protection. I appreciate this photo it is a revelation for me to start moving on and take care of me.
02 May 20 by member: PinayRN
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I like it too! It would b great on a garbage truck🤣
02 May 20 by member: acomandr
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XryRn, sometimes the best way to show love is to let him go his own way. I’m glad you found my post helpful. Please take care of yourself and your daughters. Self-love and care means setting boundaries. 🤗🤗🤗 🤸🏻♀️, garbage truck, dumpster and trash can are all appropriate places. I saw your latest post and congratulations on achieving your goal❣️ #goalgetter❣️💞💞💞
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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Keep in mind absolutely everything in a person's life affects their emotional state and therefore affecting their weight. 90 % of weight loss is mental attitude and feelings about their lives. Mine was tangled in abuse and even baby steps gaining control of my life affected me losing weight. Just making my bed everyday or being able to buy something i wanted with no one's permission made me feel better about myself. I would not be where i am today without the positive support of so many here on FS. Those posts some may feel Re not weight or health related probably are to the person who posted it.
02 May 20 by member: wholefoodnut
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Wholefoodnut, I agree with you. Mental state can absolutely affect weight, however not every personal detail needs to be shared on a public forum... especially on one without a block function so it keeps popping up on my feed. Her constant rehashing of personal trauma on a public community can trigger anxiety, stress and eating problems for other members here. Her constant daily struggles can trigger depression for other members. It’s better shared privately with close friends, on an offline journal, privately though messaging with “friends” here, or even with a professional therapist like on my 600 lb life. 💞💞💞
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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Also... my negative posts are all about my journey and what I am dealing with the last 6 months on my weight journey. If anything and everything can be posted on here, I don’t see why mine should be reported. By the way, I don’t agree with my previous statement. Members should exercise good discernment on what is appropriate.
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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Well said, Moo, couldn't have said it better👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
02 May 20 by member: acomandr
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I am not getting the middle of your drama. It is a personal issue between people. Just saying no one knows what all victories help someone
02 May 20 by member: wholefoodnut
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I have no idea on any of what is going on but sounds like Fat Secret needs a mute button/block button so you dont have to see anything from a person that might be stressing others out. Mental attitude is important in controlling weight. Toxic people online or in real life can damage your ability to manage your diet.
02 May 20 by member: CandaceM
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Wfn, you’ve always practiced good judgement here. 💞💞💞
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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Candace, I agree. Some stressors can be intentional and some may not, but it’s pertinent to have a method to filter it out completely. 👍👍👍
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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here's the thing, moop. you have the power to stop this. I have the power to stop it for myself, which I have by walking away and changing my settings. all I see is tons of negative energy being sent out into the world. it's sad. you come across all kinds in life. if you don't mesh, walk away and leave each other alone. took me a long time to get there, and takes some willpower, but it's a much more peaceful space. go outside, enjoy the sun, it's glorious.
02 May 20 by member: Katsolo
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Katsolo, you told a victim to leave her own post, while the attacker continues to find new victims...
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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Moo they will forever ignore when dramamama attacks for they know that psycho has no control over her actions
02 May 20 by member: rosio19
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There is always someone she is after. Last week she attacked someone and her enablers simply ignored
02 May 20 by member: rosio19
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When she forgets to indulge in her cocktail of meds mixed with wine the loco 😜 comes out. #dramamama #mamadrama #dramaforlife
02 May 20 by member: rosio19
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Okay. And the victim you refer to is not a victim unless she chooses to be. Life is about choices.
02 May 20 by member: Katsolo
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And go ahead and post the whole thing.
02 May 20 by member: Katsolo
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They claimed they don’t see it, I posted it for them to see. Then they tell me it’s in my mind it’s a coincidence it’s not about me...so I post more incriminating evidence, they tell me to ignore it. 🙄🙄🙄 Not everyone is strong like Moo...before the 3 of us she was attacking other members too. It’s nothing new, but it should be stopped. If enough members request a block feature, maybe it can happen faster.
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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Katsolo, I want to but I am being called bully for posting her own words... 🥺🥺🥺
02 May 20 by member: moopie321
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