Some people don't get it. My mother is the same way about some things.
26 May 18 by member: cjodyssey
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They have no idea the struggle everyday, every meal, every decision.. but I’m still being strong, just not sure for how long
26 May 18 by member: dianasarles
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Amazing how strong you are to resist. I promise you will not regret it!!
26 May 18 by member: momma6224
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I don't know what you crave or the best way for you personally to eat but maybe you might benefit from a few more calories and maybe researching different macro percentages? I know i don't struggle nearly as much when I've eaten a fewer carbs and a some more fat. But I'm insulin resistant so that may factor in.
26 May 18 by member: cjodyssey
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I’m not craving anything really, it’s just the ones I love always trying to get me to eat their stuff.. I’m constantly being asked several times a day while I’m eating my heathy food if I want there not so healthy food lol. I do have to say my determination is strong as hell. I’m just tired of being asked when they know I’m trying to lose weight. But thank you guys so much for being here I have no one to talk to that gets it
26 May 18 by member: dianasarles
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I think the best thing you can do for yourself is to just say to them exactly what you said to us, then end it with that it why I am not. I am eating heathly and then just smile.
26 May 18 by member: rvtraveler
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After just a short time I have my office trained. They know I am on weight watchers and will not offer me treats since they know I will say no. There will always be food and snacks that you will need to avoid - don't let it bug you. Just do your thing. But let everyone know how you feel. People often don't realize they are sabotaging us unless we tell them.
26 May 18 by member: Bethlauren8
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Thank you, I will tell them to stop.. I will try to explain to them that them asking me constantly is not helping. I just needed to vent thank you all so much.
26 May 18 by member: dianasarles
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I know exactly how you feel. I had to tell them in a nice way to stop offering me things I couldn't have. And then there are some that will do it anyway and I just say no and keep it moving.
26 May 18 by member: eatolive4life
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That’s why I prefer to eat alone. I’ll hit a BBQ, but I always say I’ve already eaten. Or I just brushed my teeth!
26 May 18 by member: JulsRuls
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I started to tell people, you tryin to kill me? I’m diabetic. Yo, no room over here for ambulance 🚑
26 May 18 by member: JulsRuls
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Be selfish. Real change requires it. Rare indeed is the friend who truly delights in your transformation. Most people are petty and want you stay just as you are to maintain their comfort. Human nature.
26 May 18 by member: jimmiepop
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PS - When deep in a cut, I have been known to sneak into the kitchen and run all that crap down the garbage disposal. Highly recommend.
26 May 18 by member: jimmiepop
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I have found a way to answer those well intended people, “The truth is that, yes, I want to eat it, but I am not going to. Thank you for asking. Hopefully it works for you. It’s a struggle every day!
26 May 18 by member: josieg1070
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