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Tried to upload a picture yesterday of my taco salad, but it wouldnt work for some reason.
Been a rough weekend, my husband got angry with me Saturday night and didnt speak to me all day Sunday. Normally I would have turned to sweets or something to comfort myself, but I stayed strong. I should have taken a walk or something active to burn some of the anxiety, but I didnt. I know this is supposed to me about weight loss and my journey, but I am really in a weird place right now. I am worried that he doesnt love me, and more than that, I am worried he never did. I think maybe he married me to get away from his family, but when I lost my job and we had to stay living with them it made him resent me. He can be so mean to me, and sometimes for no reason. The fight started on Saturday night because he said something about not eating with his family anymore, and I asked why. He blew up and said that I was trying to hurt him more by asking that and trying to "raise hell" with him. All I did was ask why...I just dont know what to do right now...
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I think whenever you're having problems with someone you should talk it out with them. If you can understand each other you can get along better. I think it's better to know straight-up that he doesn't care about you than to be confused and worried. Good luck to you in all your problems. Just remember, there will be better days :>
22 Jan 18 by member: Losertat
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Sorry about your situation. Take care.
22 Jan 18 by member: ginger dog
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🙁 relationships can be so difficult. Try to talk to him when he’s cooled off and see if you can have more luck with communicating. Men aren’t usually very good communicators haha
22 Jan 18 by member: momma6224
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very sorry about your weekend :-( I have been divorced for years but I know when I was married it was difficult. Communication between 2 people living in the same house it difficult enough, but add other family members and it can be stressfull at least in my view. I don't want to condone or excuse that type of behavior, but in my past it normally was because they were not happy with themselves and how they (my ex) was handling it. But that did not stop me from feeling extremely hurt and turn to food, sugar, drink, all stuff that didn't help but seems to numb the pain. It is good to hear you were able to take care of you and not turn to the 'sweets' just know you are not alone but again saying that, does not make it easy. Hugs
23 Jan 18 by member: JMA312
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