Eidetiker's Journal, 11 March 2021

Work has me stressed. White hair inducing stress, 5 new strands have popped up in the past week. I've got the emotional intelligence of a turtle, don't handle emotional situations well. And lots of change is coming. They're moving me from software support to be a system administrator.

I don't baby, or beat around the bush. Well, didn't work for this coworker because she cried on me because she said she sensed that "I think she's stupid" and "that I try to test her knowledge". I never once said, thought, or told anyone else that she is stupid and I know she's really capable. I repeat myself explaining things because I don't know what I've taught her and what I haven't. I've even defended her knowledge multiple times to other people (not in front of her but that doesn't really matter). But her own insecurities twists the reality and she wants to make me feel bad for it. I'm supposedly the bad person causing her so much emotional turmoil and stirring up drama.

She told me she's not playing the blame game on transferring calls after I explained to her if someone calls about an issue that is not related to the software we support then you need to transfer the call. What??? I wasn't blaming her for anything, I was just telling her it's not her job to support something outside of the application. That somehow turned into me being negative.

SHE was the one who kept asking me who transfers calls to us and then proceeds to shit talk the people who do the transfers, and I'm the one causing the drama??? What in the world. I'm glad I won't have to work with her closely anymore but we couldn't leave on a good note, I'm just the bad person. 🙄

Diet Calendar Entry for 11 March 2021:
838 kcal Fat: 51.58g | Prot: 32.30g | Carb: 62.11g.   Dinner: Olive Oil, Cooked Spaghetti Squash, Cooked Perfect Italian Style Flame Broiled Dinner Size Meatballs, Happy Harvest Cut Green Beans. Snacks/Other: Jell-O Lemon-Lime Sugar Free Gelatin Snack, Toll House Chocolate Chip Cookie. more...

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Oh my friend. Sound like you are dealing with trouble. I don't know how we seem to find ourselves in the mix of someone like this person that you speak of. For sure it is not rare. I'm glad you will not have to put up with her any more. I don't want you to be stressing out behind something like that. Here's to a better day . You got this. 
11 Mar 21 by member: ladytanker
Isn't it funny when you hold someone accountable for something simple you turn into the "bad guy". Personally I think it's just straight up embarrassment, they know they were wrong, but just can't actually say..."yep that was silly, I'll try to remember next time" problem solved no drama. Some people just thrive on drama don't let it stress you. Obviously you're moving onto other new adventures for a reason. Keep on Rocking it😎 
12 Mar 21 by member: acd36
Thanks Kathy & acd. I feel better now that I've slept. I'm the drama queen over here 🤪 
12 Mar 21 by member: Eidetiker
The drama queen lol. But glad to hear you are ok. 
12 Mar 21 by member: ladytanker
I do a System Administrator job too :) stay strong. ✌️ 
13 Mar 21 by member: devops
I hope that everything gets better for you and I hope that you have a wonderful weekend take care!  
13 Mar 21 by member: Augusta888
Welcome to being a leader. Leaders can’t have friends. Not saying none are worthy, but that there are always the others who will accuse you of being prejudiced. Do your best and don’t worry about her. Some people can’t take correction. 
15 Mar 21 by member: harht4God

     
 

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