Chants's Journal, 15 February 2008

I had a rather laid back day yesterday considering that the day before I walked the entire City of London! I just couldn't face trying to squeeze my swollen and blistered feet into trainers so I slopped around in socks and slippers the whole day! I even went to the shops with my slippers on! Oh the looks I got were hysterical! But do you think I cared?? No... because I wasn't hurting! hehe!

Our Valentines Day celebrations didn't go to plan because we were supposed to have my stepson but as usual, at the last minute his mother changed the plans! We'd booked a table, cancelled the table and rearranged our plans to have Harry. We'd arranged a little party for him (and put our plans aside) with balloons and his favourite meal with a lovely treat for pudding... it was supposed to be a fun night for him! But his mother text at 11:00pm the night before to let us know that once again I was banned from seeing him and either Tony takes him out by himself or Tony doesn't see him at all again! I started to get really angry at her for doing this until I realised that this was her little plan all along! Her plan was to ruin our evening and cause an argument between Tony and I but it didn't work! Haha! So Tony took him out to McDonalds and the poor little thing was full of questions... Wheres Chants?, Why isn't she here?, Am I going to see her tonight? It really upsets me when he asks after me and Tony has to dodge his questions because he can't really say "well mate, your mother won't let Chants see you because she doesn't like Chants" Ok so he already knows she can't stand me but actually telling him will make him think less of his mother and that isn't fair to do to him! But my little sweet boy made things all better and asked Tony to stop at the supermarket before he was dropped off back at home so that he could pick a red rose for me! Ahhhhh isn't he a sweetie!? My rose is now on the windowsill in with my white tulips and it looks beautiful!




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oh, I'm sorry she had to ruin it for you! I hope you can find some solution to this problem, because her tactics sound very difficult for the little boy! happy belated valentine's day! 
15 Feb 08 by member: cindylynnwho
ha im glad you got one over on her thats so bad how shes planning to hurt you, dont worry im sure she'll get whats coming to her 
15 Feb 08 by member: Pinkest_Princess
=*( Awe... I'm sorry she is so mean. That poor boy. I'll be keeping you guys in our prayers. Good for you for encouraging your great hubby to do his best and plug along!! =D WAY TO GO to you and dad! AWESOME!! Hold your heads high and feel great! :) This will pass. 
15 Feb 08 by member: bullytrouble
What really ticks me off about parents that do that, they are only thinking of themselves and not putting their child before them. The are the most selfish people in the world!! The only people that they hurt are the ones that don't deserve it. I always say, what comes around goes around and they will get theirs eventually..She may want to watch her step, some day she may find that her son resents her for what she has done to him. You and your hubby did the right thing and he sounds like a great dad! I know it's difficult for you, but be proud because you know in your heart you're a better mom to that boy then his real mother is. He sounds like a very sweet boy and he loves you a lot. Hope you have a great weekend! 
15 Feb 08 by member: Mrs. H
Oh sweet pea! The boy seems so sweet and the mother will only ruin her relationship with him in the end. Keep you chin up and for heavens sake the slippers on! 
18 Feb 08 by member: mrsjohnson0317

     
 

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