34 Year old fulltime student, Sydney, Australia. I was very slim all my life, barely able to put on weight until I started caring for my mum who was dying of bowel cancer and I started to comfort eat! I stacked on about 30 kilos, then lost 26 or so and was so happy. Then I got back with my ex, after a lovely 'honeymoon' period, where he seemed to change and not drink and was kind etc.. But, after only a few weeks of relocating my life interstate for him... He totally changed- even worse than he was before, more abusive, more drinking...So, I started comfort eating again to cope and I am very overweight again... no clothes fit... It is devastating... And he deliberately sabotages everything from my study to deleting my emails while I sleep all the way to buying copious amounts of fattening food the day I start a diet.(like today!) I NEED to lose this weight and move as far away from him as possible... I have no family and he has cut off all my friends and family... It is devastating. I decided to come here for support...