I'm 41 and weigh the most I ever have in my entire life, and that includes when I was pregnant. Speaking of pregnant I look like I am pregnant but my "baby" is 12. Gained 25 lbs this year :( Being over 40 my metabolism has changed and I got really lazy in the last year. It's time to be healthy for me! I'm not focusing on a number on the scale but on how I feel and how I look.