41yo recently divorced guy who needs to lose the weight so that I can find me some lovin! Seriously, being 100 lbs overweight is certainly not optimal for the dating scene & I'm too young to give up on finding love. For the ladies: I'm a kind, gentle and emotionally attuned guy who is full of life. I am financially stable (though certainly not rich!) AND I am gainfully employed (a big bonus in the player market, I understand). And the best part: I'M NOT GAY!!! (not that there's anything wrong with that) So if you are an attractive, single woman who is interested in meeting a REAL MAN...?!? On the other hand, if you are just looking for a friend & some moral support, give me a holler.