I am 39 years old with 2 children ages 8 and 16. I am a widow of 5 years so far. I let myself go after my husband passed away and am finally realizing I need to take charge of my life once again. I love to read, walk and spend time with family, I love to travel though I have never been out of the United States yet. I am a very open and honest person. I do not like people who lie, cheat, or backstab, or manitpulate others. I have learned that life is very short, be thankful for what you have while its here beacause once it is gone you can never get it back.