debrafrederick's Journal, 25 July 2016

LOL!!! I like the part when she says "If you don't think I rock well then we ain't going to roll.  

Thanks, Debra. That made me smile! 

ROFL! 2 classics! 

Hilarious!!!  

Made me smile. On a different note - spot the double standards. The older woman had older women (and then older men) in the first video. The older guy had young, fit women hanging on his arm in the second. Maybe it's me but ... 

I support the above statements and I haven't seen the videos, lol, take care all. 

It's funny what you find shared on FB when you haven't been there for a while, my friends from the Class of 83 are sharing these videos all over the place and from the comments many of them are feeling old. The humor in it was what I was struck by, the women were stating that they still have it tho the packaging may be worn, as was the man. The message was the same, but method of delivery was different :) 

Funny videos, Debra :) 

Here's a male comment for you.... 

"...spot the double standards. The older woman had older women (and then older men) in the first video. The older guy had young, fit women hanging on his arm in the second. Maybe it's me but ... " DAMN RIGHT, GIRL! Exactly as it should be! #getoverit 

Jimmie, I don't think you qualify for that particular issue #lightsonforyou 

@DF - I qualified at 238# and 30%+ Fat. No one wants to see pics of that. Solid B Cup. I say lights on for everybody.... Forces all the issues... Get fit... Get a new partner... OR BOTH!! 

BTW - Phooka was whining about the unfairness of the the double standard for men vs women in aging. That's what I was addressing. She's right about everything except the whining. Men do age better on average and attract younger women. Fact of life. And not a bad or purely sexual thing, I might add, although that is a part of it. The other parts of the attraction are that older men often compare very favorably with young men on pretty much every measure, and many younger women are remarkably unencumbered by the head trash we all accumulate through years of blown relationships, divorce, custody battles, and etc.  

Geez, it was supposed to be funny. Must everything be turned into a serious debate or argument? @DF.........thanks for the nice, funny video.  

As a young woman, I never cared for men my own age. I liked the maturity and self assured-ness of older men. Now I find that I enjoy the company of men my own age, guess they finally caught up :). I have a group of young women who confide in me and they cannot deal with the issues of men their own age and look to older men for stable relationships. I also seem to have a fan club of early 30's men who keep asking me out. I think it may be the self confidence and lack of neediness that attracts them. I send them away with a smile, and the fact that I am married and have a child older than they are! I love the attention, but I don't care to be a surrogate mother. The thing I hear most from both sexes is an abhorrence of whining from the opposite sex, so it seems that is a very unattractive behavior for both sides. 

@DF Yep. Exactly right. And older women ARE great for younger guys... 

LMAO it is funny Engeland as are the comments, people look at everything from different perspectives and I enjoy seeing the diverse reactions that are produced. I have noticed in my years of human observation that men's egos are a bit fragile and they being the more aggressive sex, tend to pounce on what appears to be a slight faster than women do. It's a natural thing, no worries :) 

@England Thanks so much for driving home my point! #LMAO 

Time for work #goingpostal 

Those are fun!