Transformation Butterfly's Journal, 30 May 2016

Okay it's the end of May and I have to believe things are starting to turn around.

The employee who accused me of threatening her life, physically hitting her and sabotaging her work quit three weeks ago. In her abstinence management has discovered that there is at least 6 months work of back log work. I have been asked to step back into this old position to clear up the back log, while they look for a new employee.

It's amazing to me that after 13 years of working for this company, never missing a day unless sick, working non stop from the time I walk into the building to the time I leave, that all of my work was for nothing as they believed a 23 year old woman's allegations. (She resigned by sending an email to HR department that stated,"I quit effective as of this moment." and proceeded to her car and peeled out of the parking lot. Then a day later went on Facebook and ranted about my boss and the company.) I don't feel happy about her departure, as the other employees (who previously shunned me and believed every word she uttered) are now stating negative things about her. My response to them has been "what is done in the darkness will eventually come to the light" and Proverbs 12. Unfortunately most of them have no knowledge of the bible and or the understanding that uttering negative comments about anyone is a judgement and we are not to judge one another.

I have been praying for her for months now to grow up and realize that her actions are not helping her to better her situation and making life for her and her children even more difficult. I believe that every person has within in them the ability to change, but only they can make that choice.
I also believe that when you fall someone will be their to tell you to get up and start over again. This is why I love the Fat secret family.
Through tough times, tears and it all we stand strong.

Thanks again family.



189.0 lb Lost so far: 0 lb.    Still to go: 49.0 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.

Diet Calendar Entry for 30 May 2016:
926 kcal Fat: 43.18g | Prot: 38.90g | Carb: 114.47g.   Breakfast: Central Market Ground Flax Seed, Flaxseed Seeds, Bananas, Blackberries, coconumt milk unsweeted, Baby Spinach, Strawberries. Lunch: low moisture part-skim mozzarella, Tuscan Garden Cheese Garlic Croutons, Spinach, Bumble Bee Chunk Light Tuna in Water, Brussels Sprouts, Apples. Dinner: Bob's Red Mill Natural Raw Whole Flaxseed, hot dog made with chicken & pork. Snacks/Other: pina colada frozen fruit bar. more...
losing 0.4 lb a week

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The girl who tried to get me in trouble at work just quit Friday :) All of a sudden the 3 other employees turned on me. In the end I was correct, because, I was telling the truth. Now they treat me like I'm their best friend. (Still will never trust them) Yes, I too love to read proverbs. I've tested them and they have always been true! Transformation Butterfly, you are truly awesome :) 
30 May 16 by member: Sugar Waffle
So proud of you, butterfly! 
30 May 16 by member: ImLaura
Contentious work situations are always a problem. My suggestion is to avoid them as much as possible. Let management deal with them, and I can't tell you, how many people at work love all the drama. My positive attitude worked for me, more than anything else. Don't feed into any of it! We all can THINK in are own minds what we want, but our ATTITUDES can prevail. My father told me, "Son, never miss an opportunity to keep your MOUTH SHUT!" Those were the most grateful words ever spoken to me. lol Another thing! Attorneys are jerks, and lifesavers! Funny, how they stop all the abuse. 
30 May 16 by member: warrenwinter
You can call me Glen, Sugar, but he might not like that! lol 
30 May 16 by member: warrenwinter
Glad this has worked out for you, though of course it would have been better if it never had happened. Funny, this reminded me of a long ago incident I had like that - and I was actually fired despite my excellent work record. But before a week had passed the perpetrator quit, they figured out she was telling lies about me and hired me back. I stayed only until I could get a better job.  
30 May 16 by member: trackin64
Sugar, once a boss lost his composure in front of my attorney. I felt real bad, when he was fired.  
30 May 16 by member: warrenwinter
.......and my attorney said nothing except for me to remain quiet. He also did nothing to provoke the firing. It happened because my attorney was there and heard it. 
30 May 16 by member: warrenwinter
Thanks I have been silent since January and not having anything to say other than Good morning and or Good night to co-workers. I have taken up to listening to my gospel music, books on CD's (Just finished you before me and discovered they made a movie from the book) with my portable CD player and headphones. It's funny because sometimes I have the ear plugs in and the player is off and I hear my co-workers talking about me, but yet these are the same people who state we should have a friendly workplace and we should all go around talking like snow white and she should be our roll model. (No joke folks this was voiced in a meeting with the CEO present and he agreed. Funny thing is these same people are playing video games on cellphones and surfing the internet all day and a few clock in and then go to sleep in cubicles.)I am not sure if this is the new age of employment tactic or a rejected idea from the Disney Channel life coaching book,but management is going full stream with this idea. My mother told me "You can't get into trouble if you have no comments about anything and silence is golden. " This may be old school but I find it makes my workday very peaceful and it bothers the hell out of management and other employees.  
30 May 16 by member: Transformation Butterfly
That's the attitude. Do your job and everything tales care of itself. It is sad that people go to work, and waste time, and gossip instead of doing their jobs. 
30 May 16 by member: warrenwinter
Nice drop!!!  
30 May 16 by member: John10251
Oh My! warrenwinter, I don't know where I got Glen from. The both of you are awesome men! Excuse my mistake 
30 May 16 by member: Sugar Waffle
Sugar, you can call me by whatever name you wish. lol 
30 May 16 by member: warrenwinter
My "Corporate Motto" = Agree, Avoid, Ignore 
30 May 16 by member: HCB
And you managed to lose weight in spite of all the stress. You are a goddess! 
30 May 16 by member: erikahollister

     
 

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