goofylover's Journal, 07 August 2011

Oh my goodness.... I have three sisters and they can be sooooooooo mean! I have a sister (Tammy) she is older than me and can be so over powering. I went to a baby shower at her house this summer, walked into the kitchen, made a comment about the beautiful cake and she snapped at me (right in front of all of her guests.) It all becomes my fault ... all of her stress is guided right at me.. no one can love you or hurt you like your sister.. so my friend I really can relate. It is a "very good" thing that you did not eat your stress. You have to say in your mind when she is snapping at you, (I am worth it, I deserve good things, and you will not hurt me anymore..because this is your problem) That is what was going on in my mind when my sister was snapping at me.. it helps. Another thing that helps me is distance, if she is acting like that I take a break and I let her know I am doing this and why. She then comes around. Is your sister older or younger? (sorry if I have asked you this question) Well I hope you are doing ok today. You deserve good things!! Keep going one day and meal at a time my friend. :)  

sisters can be a killer - they know just where to get you!! Hoping you are having a better day!  

I hear you.... How are you doing today? What diet are you on? I am using the biggest looser formula...how about you? I hope you are well, just remember I got your back sister!! :) ...and I am here for you..anytime!!