Thanks for sharing and getting that off your chest. That is disturbing news. I hope that your niece gets the help she needs. So many people are suffering with depression and especially this time of year too. The holidays can be so overwhelming. I know that it is a really the hardest time of year for me so I completely understand.
This was a bump in the road in eating but think of it this way, you probably ate so much pie, it won't look good for a long while. :) Good luck to you, your brother and niece!
11 Dec 14 by member: BigBear2015
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Prayers going out for your niece. Chalk up the pies to your first experience of binging. We've all done it. ((((Sherrie))))
11 Dec 14 by member: ClassicRocker
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Sorry to hear about your niece, Sherrie. I pray she is feeling better soon. Coming from someone who has struggled with emotional eating I can say I know where you are coming from. One thing that has helped me is journaling. When I am feeling stressed, worried, etc...I found it helps to journal and get those feelings out in the open instead of internalizing them and "eating my emotions" so to speak. It is great that you recognize where that urge to overeat is coming from. Maybe during this stressful time don't have any "goodies" in the house where there is easy access. If you have to go out of the house to get a goodie then you have time to gain control and think things through. That has often stopped me in the past. Praying for your peace and comfort during this difficult time.
11 Dec 14 by member: spinx1971
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Few things are as disturbing as hearing that a child wants to commit suicide. Two of my daughters went through times like that and it is heartbreaking. Thankfully it is usually a cry for help and expression of their struggle and most often no real intent to follow through but certainly needs to be taken seriously. Saying a prayer for your niece and family. :)
11 Dec 14 by member: jmb3450
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I will be praying for your niece and your family. BigBear2015 is right. The holidays are the time where most of us feel either depression or stress. I think you should not be upset with yourself for eating the pie. When I am stressed or upset I want to overeat and since I know that, I am on guard with food in those moments. You will make it through this moment and be stronger for it.
11 Dec 14 by member: gingin40
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Sherri I am sorry for such horrible news around the holidays. Wish for Peace & Happiness for family and hope your niece gets her well needed health.
God Bless
11 Dec 14 by member: pwrestlephoto
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I meant well needed Help.
11 Dec 14 by member: pwrestlephoto
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I am so glad your niece reached out for help so that you all have the opportunity to get her some help. (((Hugs, Sherrie)))) It will be ok. Don't sweat the pie. Drink a ton of water and get yourself back on track.
11 Dec 14 by member: 2ManyCurves
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That kind of news is difficult, but her telling people is way of helping herself get help and a positive thing. Both my niece and nephew have tried to kill themselves. They both got help and are doing much better. There is hope. Take care of yourself so you can be in healthy frame of mind to offer your support.
11 Dec 14 by member: Suzi161
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You all are the BEST !!! Thank you so much for all of your good thoughts and prayers.
11 Dec 14 by member: SherrieC
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At least she told someone. We lose people every day who never talk about it.
11 Dec 14 by member: ChrisComedy
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Please dont be hard on yourself <3 those that are over weight at some point or another have done similar <3 my son has been in jail and in hospital for trying to kill himself all this month ,,, and much more ,, I have struggled myself and gain 6 lbs ,, I love me and I'm not giving up because I slipped ..love to you Praying for your Niece <3 sweet dreams <3
11 Dec 14 by member: dreamcatcher10
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I understand. I have had/have serious family issues. Food can be a comfort during times of stress. Prayers to you and your family. Praying your niece receives help. ♡
11 Dec 14 by member: PinkRose88
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The fact that she let someone know means she wants help. That's good! If this is your first experience with an emotional food binge, you're doing a LOT better than most of us. Hang in there!
11 Dec 14 by member: Instantcrazy
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Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
12 Dec 14 by member: millerm40
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13 Dec 14 by member: Deb_N
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I think your reaction is pretty normal. Even I, as a nurse, am terrified of how I would react and whether I'd be able to help if a family member was dealing with thoughts of suicide. Hang in there! Your brother has made the first move in finding her a therapist. Be there for her. Pray that she WANTS help and can get through this, because it really is up to her.
13 Dec 14 by member: gilliansings
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I agree with Gilliansings. Your reaction is normal when we gets such heart-wrenching, sad and terrifying news. Please don't be so hard on yourself. I know that you'll get back on track. I do hope that your niece is OK. The positive point with your niece is now maybe she can get some help and hopefully prevent her from acting on her thoughts. Oh yes, pecan pie is my weakness and who can resist it. I know I can't.
14 Dec 14 by member: dragonwisdom
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