Ruhu's Journal, 14 September 2014

And that one day flows to this one, continuing to be a combination of fun, special times with bits of sadness spread throughout... Bitter sweet at times, but mostly sweet and such special memories made. Yesterday again I so enjoyed my girlfriends and the new baby, followed by special, precious time with my mom and dinner with her, my cousin and his wife. She's so enjoying my time here which makes it even more wonderful.

Today, I'm off to spin class and a walk with my other girlfriend here, then back to begin the birthday celebrating as my mom turns 87 today. Tonight we'll have dinner with one of my aunts, my cousin & her DH. It just worked out, and for the best, to see family spread out over the time here. But that's really better for my mom as I can see what work it is for her to keep up with one conversation, so multiple going on around here can be very confusing.

It's been great to see though how social she still is here, going out with my aunts every Monday (where I'll join them tomorrow for lunch and then head to the airport as they head to play cards for the afternoon), grocery shopping every Fri, cards, bingo, and mass throughout the week plus happy hour, concerts and time with her girlfriends here. It's very cute to see as she has 2 special GFs here and the 3 of them sit side by side on the same coach in the piano lounge before and after meals. It's when these social activities being to wane, that I'll move her closer to me -- at least that's the tentative plan for now... As all plans have to be when dealing with Alzheimer's.

So, off now to spin I go, but first will start the day praying for serenity. I'm so very grateful for each of fantastic you, my family and IRL friends - here and back home, wonderful memories being made here in Cincy, this special time with my mom, and having the health & wealth to live this life I love! Xoxox

Diet Calendar Entries for 14 September 2014:
1478 kcal Fat: 76.68g | Prot: 108.96g | Carb: 106.55g.   Breakfast: Quest Vanilla Almond Crunch, Spectrum Naturals Organic Coconut Oil, Harmless Harvest 100% Raw Coconut Water. Lunch: Panera Bread Fresh Fruit Cup (Small), Panera Bread Power Mediterranean Chicken Salad. Dinner: Olive Garden Herb-Grilled Salmon (Dinner), Best Yet Mixed Berries. Snacks/Other: Red Delicious Apples, Sunspire Unsweetened Carob Chips, Walnuts, Kroger Unsweetened Coconut Flake. more...
2261 kcal Activities & Exercise: Walking (brisk) - 4/mph - 1 hour and 30 minutes, Bicycling (fast) - 15/mph - 1 hour, Resting - 13 hours and 30 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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Such a beautiful trip for you. I find that all "plans" need to have flexibility in them for me - and I don't have Alzheimers or a parent with it... Flexibility is just so much kinder to all involved. You are finding it in your food as well as in your plans for your mom. And that makes your story an inspiration for me. 
14 Sep 14 by member: Sweet Ce
Happy Sunday Angel. Your Mom has a better social life going on than I do :-) Piano lounge with girlfriends.. how sweet. You sound good .. I can hear some hesitation in your voice as you write but you're so much stronger than you a year ago ~ shine today.  
14 Sep 14 by member: FullaBella
Sounds like she is happy there and you have a good plan. Enjoy your pecial times.  
14 Sep 14 by member: wholefoodnut
Giant Birthday wishes for your mom.. x0x0x0x0x 
14 Sep 14 by member: deaby16
Happy birthday to your mom, Ruth. I'm with Bella. She could give us some tips! 
14 Sep 14 by member: Helewis
You sound like you are really having a "blast." You truly deserve it. Wishing your Mom's a Happy Birthday (God Bless Her). Enjoy!! 
14 Sep 14 by member: C67241
Happy (belated) Birthday to your mom :-) 
15 Sep 14 by member: AilaOne

     
 

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