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OK I managed to get a pedicure appointment and my damn husband DH decides he has to take the car and get back late so I miss it. I was so mad at him. Then he snatched my car keys and took the car again. What an *SShole!!!! He is mad because in his words he's "been locked up in the house!!!" and he's taking it out on me. He is so spiteful and vengeful. I have been trying to do my regular things despite his annoying presence and constant comments. No matter what he always has a chip on his shoulder, to say the least.
Diet Calendar Entry for 05 September 2014:
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1916 kcal
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Fat: 79.74g | Prot: 121.08g | Carb: 192.23g.
Breakfast: Lundberg Black Japonica Rice, The Cheese Guy Sharp Cheddar, Lundberg Black Japonica Rice, Scallions or Spring Onions, Egg Beaters All Natural 100% Egg Whites, Trader Joe's Persian Cucumber, nutrihealth fiber 50/50. Lunch: Silk Pure Almond Milk - Unsweetened Vanilla, Green's Chocolate Babka, Cheese Pizza with Vegetables. Dinner: Vita Coco 100% Pure Coconut Water (11.1 oz), Ground Beef (Cooked), Zomick's Egg Challah Roll, White Rice, Schmidt Old Tyme Whole Grain White Slim Buns, Ground Beef (Cooked), Chicken Leg, Beef Top Sirloin (Trimmed to 1/8" Fat). more...
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(2) words - marriage counselor!
05 Sep 14 by member: NowIunderstand
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I just went through a divorce last year...not a fun process. I'd start talking to the hubby & communicate, or be ready to go it alone...and that sucks! Good Luck!
05 Sep 14 by member: madjak30
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05 Sep 14 by member: eddie1261
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05 Sep 14 by member: Melodyann
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I know you can feel the support, and love from all of us.
05 Sep 14 by member: Char60
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Right, therapy/ counseling
05 Sep 14 by member: wholefoodnut
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Hang in there! Hoping you and DH find a way to work it out! Xoxox
05 Sep 14 by member: Ruhu
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You say he makes lots of $$. Can you afford a second car? that may solve some of your conflict
05 Sep 14 by member: wholefoodnut
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something about that comment I made about the $$$ totally even rubbed me the wrong way; I don't know if I can explain what I mean but, I never had a job like he does, so to me it seems like more than enough of an income to totally be happy with and live comfortably. He however is so insecure and has no joy for anything like a vacation or going out, renting a movie, another car, anything at all it just doesn't make any sense to me. There is a big contrast. For example you don't need a ton of money to go on a vacation; you can plan and go and enjoy, but with him it just doesn't happen or work out. I somehow bought 3 nights at a Hilton Resort in Orlando, for $99. Total. That is a great deal. I mean it's a really nice place. Didn't happen. So, I think he could get a new car and it would dodge some of the conflict, but that attitude is still there.
06 Sep 14 by member: Tulipgirl6
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I think it would be a good idea for both of you to track your spending on paper for a month. Then, from that extrapolate a picture of what's going on. It might alleviate his insecurity to see a realistic picture. Sometimes people have a 'false idea' of what's going on by which they reference their actions. To show him the finances as they are might very well alleviate his insecurities. He is the sole supporter of a family, that is stressful, because it's like being the captain of the ship and all the financial responsibilities are on his shoulders. It sounds to me like you have to redefine a partnership. I think the family as a whole should be managed. And to me, your house should be your home where you get into an oasis, and not a war zone. It's though enough outside the walls of the home. It should never be though to live inside. If there's one thing I've been thankful of the last 20 years (excluding a few) it's been the harmony felt when I step inside my house. I know, I've lived a very turbulent childhood where it was a war zone. It's horrific as an experience and does leave its marks.
06 Sep 14 by member: NowIunderstand
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