Well I know you can do it. LOL!! Out of the mouths of babes right? Kids are so honest. It's sometimes funny but it can hit to close to home. I use to teach preschool. One day I was reading a story to the class, and a little boy walked up, squeezed my arm and said, "Ms. Lisa, why are your arms so big? lol What can you say? It's a wake up call for sure. We can't all look like we did on our wedding day, years ago, before kids, but we can strive to be the best we can be right now. You're right. You have to be here for your son. He deserves it and so do you!