I hear ya Buffy..its hard to delete them but if they haven't been on for at least a year I don't think they are coming back...I am glad your still here..and me too..I love to read how your doing and you are doing very well...congrats...:O)
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Buffy you are just so efficient....I didn't even think to go and clean out my Buddy list!! See you have just given me another chore to add to my list!! lol!
20 Sep 12 by member: triaby
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I wonder what other reasons people have to clean people out of their buddy list. I wonder how many people have deleted me because I talk about my boobs too much. Don't delete me!!!
20 Sep 12 by member: Ms Elizabeth
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Oh DFW....don't you know we KEEP you because you talk about boobs all the time?
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Bren - I always appreciate your encouragement. Someday, maybe we'll even get to go on that shopping trip!
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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Tracy - told you I was good at that!
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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DairyFarmersWife - I finally deleted Litlagirl. She was bad news anyway.
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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HCB - In reference to that PM - maybe the reason you weren't on my Buddy List was because my list was clogged by "Phantom Buddies".
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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It IS hard to delete buddies. I just do it a little bit every now and again and I find my 2 categories of deletees are very much the same as yours. Occasionally, I'll hang onto someone for quite awhile if they have a "story behind them." Sometimes it's someone who lives close....or they've posted or journaled quite a bit and it's been helpful.....or something like that.
20 Sep 12 by member: Sandy701
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Sandy - I kept a few of those too. Someone I actually had a connection with. Am hoping they found another path to their goals.
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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how sad but true.i have deleted a few buddies that didnt seem to be around anymore.not just cuz they dont journal,heck i hardly ever journal.they dont comment or at least weigh in.there is this one buddy i could not give up on.she hadnt done anything since april and i really missed her.thought about getting rid of her(u know wht i mean)a few times but just couldnt do it.and today she is back.
20 Sep 12 by member: rockytu
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Rockytu - Hi! Nice to have you as a Buddy - Have seen you around here for quite some time now. BTW - Nice that you got your Buddy back. I really hate to delete, thinking that if they do come back they won't have any Buddies anymore.
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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I just can't bring myself to delete anybody yet.
20 Sep 12 by member: gg-girl
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GG - the only reason I did was because I thought the glut of "Phantom Buddies" was causing technical problems. As far as I'm concerned I never feel the need to delete anybody.
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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Oh .. gee. If you had that many buddies many it was a good idea to clean up the profile page. LOL! I am like a boomerang... I might leave for a while but I always come back. :)
20 Sep 12 by member: Mom2Boxers
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Mom - coming back is what it is all about!
20 Sep 12 by member: BuffyBear
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