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Well I am having a horrible day. I was reminded by my husband even though he may have meant to say it different he was complaining abt how the kids jump on the deck from the front door and since the deck is sinking i see his point. But then he said and your the worst one with your 300lbs jumping on the deck would it kill you to bend a knee. I told him I know how much i weigh and just looked at him. Then he said well then you should no better since your so big. Well it hurt alot and i felt like crying but i didnt. Cuz no matter who it is I am not going to let them get me down. Crying would just have showen how weak I am and that is one thing I am not is weak for no one. Sorry just need to vent abt my insentive husband
Diet Calendar Entry for 05 September 2012:
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Fat: 52.49g | Prot: 105.51g | Carb: 62.64g.
Breakfast: sara lee honey turkey low sodium, onions, green pepper, velveeta slices, Egg Beaters. Dinner: taco soning marcum, taco shell, GROUND TURKEY, lettuce, shredded limitation mozzarella cheese. more...
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Aww sorry to hear that, but I hope venting helped you relieve some of the anger and sadness regarding your husbands insensitive remarks. However you should let him know that saying things like that does in fact hurt your feelings and that they are unnecessary.
Just know you are beautiful and no one has the power to take away your will and confidence but you. So just use the negativety as motivation.
Good Luck and I hope your day looks up. :-)
05 Sep 12 by member: amb_79
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05 Sep 12 by member: bonthronm
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I agree with amy_79, you can't keep that in. I don't think it's showing weakness to be upset. Maybe he wasn't 'thinking' because he's upset or keeping something in so it comes out in hurtful words. I know I can get 'snippy' when I don't know how to convey what's on my mind. Hope the rest of your day was enjoyable and was able to drown out the hurtful words from hubby.
05 Sep 12 by member: ppphhhttt
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Men just don't seem to get it sometimes. I had something similar happen to me one time and I told the guy: "I put myself down enough as it is, I don't need your help. How would you feel if I criticized the size of your penis?" I never heard another word out of his mouth again about my weight. Guys just aren't as sensitive about their weight or looks as women are, so they just don't understand how hurtful their comments can be sometimes. You have let them know (in a nice way) how it feels by letting them put that shoe on their own foot for just a few seconds.
05 Sep 12 by member: worm2butterfly2012
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I did have a talk with him when I was more calm and I think he gotthe point. And ya worm2butterfly2012 I also said thatto him abt penis thing and he thinks that total different but its not..lol Anyway guys i am doing much better sorry u guys had to hear me vent but i needed to thanks. And the best thing i did was tell him straght the way i felt. Hiding it wont help but make things worse.
06 Sep 12 by member: bonthronm
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well i'm glad that you've sorted it out bonthronm, and just wants to share that crying is never a sign of weakness. i believe women are more stronger than men about that coz we have the courage to show how we really feel. and just by not letting it put you down only means that you really are determined and strong. i really admire your attitude and hope it wont happen again :) keep smiling :) nobody can make you inferior without your consent :)
06 Sep 12 by member: huwana
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thanks guys for being there for me.
06 Sep 12 by member: bonthronm
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