moogiemynes's Journal, 23 June 2018

Take this sh^t down. Please. I am sure you mean well, but to post someone up by name like this on social media, particularly if they are troubled, as you assert she is, is beyond fcuked.  

Take. this. down. She's already hurting, she doesn't need to see this. This is the third post I've seen about her, you should all be ashamed. We're adults damnit. 

I feel so bad for her but I do not think these posts will help. I will pray for her though 

We are all concerned, but please let's not make posts like these about others. It is 'gossip'. Gossip' is about 'control'. When I talk to someone directly, they retain 'some' control. When I talk about them, and it affects them (because they hear about it or see it), they do not have any control. What we post on this site does affect emotionally in the real world. I just hope we can be kind to each other. @moogiemynes we know you just simply care, but, please delete this post 

What she needs is a good psychologist, and a good doctor. There is nothing that prayer can do for her (prayer is for you), SHE has to do it for herself. Self-harm is self-harm, and no amount of shaming or calling her out is going to change that. Imagine her disease is cancer, or Parkinson’s. Would you post this message of “concern” if that was what she had? I sure wouldn’t. :( 

Your concern may be real but this is not your place to comment on someone else's life and breed space for gossip. Imagine how she'd feel coming across this. Do you actually think this would make her feel better? Or would she feel hurt? At the end of the day, IF she is dealing with anything, this is a journey that she must walk on her own. You are taking her power by making posts like this. This is not helpful. It's harmful. If you really care, you'll take This down. 

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