I completely understand. I lost my only child when she was just 18 months old. Within 3 months, both of my sisters were pregnant. One didn't even know if she wanted kids. Understand that it is part of the grieving process. Nobody knows why one person is blessed with kids and another isn't. Hopefully you will be blessed soon with another pregnancy. I'm sure you are a good friend and will wlecome that baby with welcome arms, even if you do go home and cry after. Best of luck!
25 Jul 12 by member: apatrick1
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I can pretty much guarantee there will be lots of secret crying...
25 Jul 12 by member: Missychick21
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It has been 3 years and I still cry. It will always be a part of your life. Even when you move onto having other children (I know have an 8 month old), you will secretly cry. It's ok to.
25 Jul 12 by member: apatrick1
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I have 2 older children from a previous relationship and I love them with every part of me but losing this one that was a part of the most amazing man who I am now engaged to has torn me up so badly
25 Jul 12 by member: Missychick21
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Hopefully there will be future babies with him. That is all you can hope for right now. Grieve the loss of your baby, love your other kids, and then start looking towards the future when you are ready. It may feel like baby steps, but eventually you will get there. After 3 years of the worst torment ever, I can honestly say that we are a happy family again.
25 Jul 12 by member: apatrick1
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I don't think you're horrible at all, it's completely natural to feel this way. Four years ago I miscarried and it still bothers me when my friends announce yet another pregnancy. Especially when they already have 4-5. I'm sorry for your, but when your ready you will be blessed with another someday
25 Jul 12 by member: LoveMyself89
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The worst part is my harsh feelings towards my friend having a baby. I'm not mad at her and certainly not the baby it's just the selfish part coming out and how it's not fair... My mom drilled in me that life's not fair but I really wish it was sometimes especially in times like this where it hurts so bad
25 Jul 12 by member: Missychick21
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Thank you guys for not being mean to me about my feelings
25 Jul 12 by member: Missychick21
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