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Posted: 03 Jun 2010, 19:33
I just went through an emotionally difficult pregnancy and lost my little boy a few hours after his birth. I am still healing and not able to exercise yet, but I am more determined than ever to lose weight and be healthy.

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Posted: 03 Jun 2010, 19:40
I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing weight and being healthy is the best gift that you can give yourself. Best of luck on your journey.

If you sometimes feel a little useless, offended or depressed, always remember that YOU were once the fastest and most victorious little sperm out of millions!

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Posted: 03 Jun 2010, 19:56
I too am sorry for your loss....good luck, you started at the right place! This site is very helpful

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Posted: 03 Jun 2010, 20:39
Good luck. This is a great site. It's not so big that you will get lost and everyone tends to be very helpful (unless you're selling something and dieting dangerously!)

I'm sorry for your loss. Be very gentle with yourself as you grieve.
DISCLAIMER: I expect to lose this weight over the next 6 months to 5 years. I'm not going to feel like a failure if it takes an entire month to lose 1 pound. I'm going to feel like a success when that happens! I may offer advice that I'm currently not taking myself. Feel free to call me on that!

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Posted: 03 Jun 2010, 21:32
Such trying times. I'm so sorry you have to face them. But this is a wonderful place to start to put yourself back together, a piece at a time. Making the investment in your health and well-being is an important part of recovery. I'm glad you're taking care of yourself.

And then the day came, when the risk to remain tight in a bud
was more painful than the risk it took to Blossom.
- Anaïs Nin

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Posted: 04 Jun 2010, 01:11
My Condolences to you and your family
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die

Mary Elizabeth Frye

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Posted: 04 Jun 2010, 01:37
Im sorry to hear about you loss. Know that you have a huge support group on here. Im glad your deciding to take the time to heal your self, you mind body and soul. Welcome back hun.

"Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." - Confucius

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Posted: 04 Jun 2010, 19:00
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. This is a wonderful place to find comfort and support. May God bless you.

He must increase, but I must decrease. John3:30

“No diet will remove all the fat from your body because the brain is entirely fat. Without a brain, you might look good, but all you could do is run for public office.” George Bernard Shaw

People judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You may have a heart of Gold, but so does a hard boiled egg.

“My doctor told me to stop having intimate dinners for four. Unless there are three other people.” – Orson Welles


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Posted: 19 Oct 2011, 15:26
Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss sweetie. Sad I just couldn't imagine. There are lots of support on here. Great people to support you. Including me. Smile
lee shelly

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Posted: 19 Oct 2011, 16:08
Sad dont try to rush things, take ur time...and i too am so sorry for ur loss.....good friends and family is what u need right now

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Posted: 19 Oct 2011, 18:27
tears for of luck beginning ur healthy way of life.

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Posted: 21 Oct 2011, 11:53
Sorry about your loss. May you find strength and comfort knowing that on your new journey a precious angel will be cheering you on every step of the way. Take care

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