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Rita41

Joined: Apr 13
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Posted: 26 Jul 2013, 20:31
mummydee wrote:


so i'm taking a different attitude....I've decided to make money writing dieting books.
I'm told they appeal to a very wide audience. Smile


LOL.... I don't think Diablo meant anything against you at all. He was caught up in the rigger ma roll of the other post. LOL... Loved your trick with the wine.

Your sarcasm is very subtle....and awesome btw...
mummydee

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Posted: 26 Jul 2013, 20:50
Thanks Rita, glad someone gets a smile out of it!!Wink
Rita41

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Posted: 26 Jul 2013, 20:52
At first it took me a while to figure out your sarcasm ...now I get it lol.... you make me smile.....
Diablo360x

Joined: Jul 11
Posts: 781

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Posted: 26 Jul 2013, 21:54
Rita41 wrote:
Does Diablo realize that if he just stops typing then the thread will likely disappear?


Not so sure, I think he may just keep coming up with pop quizzes while quoting every individual line I post.
Love your food or risk failure. No quick fixes, this is a lifestyle change. No extremes are needed just consistency.
Diablo360x

Joined: Jul 11
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Posted: 26 Jul 2013, 22:01
Rita41 wrote:
You're welcome Diablo. I think you have been giving sound advice and getting a raw deal (especially when you are misquoted). Stay here with the cool kids we love you Smile



Aww, haha, thanks and likewise. I just noticed Katherine has resorted to throwing out pet names. I rubbed off on her. Sorry Rita.
Love your food or risk failure. No quick fixes, this is a lifestyle change. No extremes are needed just consistency.
Rita41

Joined: Apr 13
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Posted: 26 Jul 2013, 22:02
You can do this Diablo....
Diablo360x

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Posted: 26 Jul 2013, 22:52
Funny joke mummy but I don't see that thread falling when you girls keep bumping it lol!
Love your food or risk failure. No quick fixes, this is a lifestyle change. No extremes are needed just consistency.
Diablo360x

Joined: Jul 11
Posts: 781

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 01:12
Uh oh, I think a friend from across the pond is coaxing me back people. Must. Resist.
Love your food or risk failure. No quick fixes, this is a lifestyle change. No extremes are needed just consistency.
mummydee

Joined: Feb 10
Posts: 1,748

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 03:14
OMG, It was the wine! I meant to post that joke on this thread not there! I was just peeping, oh no what have i done, Fell off the wagon face first .

20 lashes with a wet noodle (as long as it's rice pasta that is Wink )
kingkeld

Joined: Sep 09
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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 03:41
MAke sure the noodle is whole wheat. Smile
"Losing weight is never about eating as little as possible"
- Kingkeld.
"You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.
― Eleanor Roosevelt
"Do. Or do not. There is no trying."
- Master Yoda.

I went from morbidly obese to being the owner of TABDIG - a weight loss coaching service that helps people worldwide losing weight. It's been an amazing journey. From October 4th 2010 to April 3rd 2012 I lost half my body weight - 80 kilos/170 lbs. Since then, I have had two cosmetic surgeries to remove excess skin. I have now quadrupled my strength, gained several kilos in muscle mass, and today I focus on building muscle, optimizing my diet, living healthy and helping people to reach the very same goals. I am stronger, healthier, thinner, happier! If you feel that you need help losing weight, don't hesitate to send me an inbox message.
tonym1967

Joined: Oct 12
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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 06:31
spacey49 wrote:

Lets see how people TWIST THE FACTS to suit their own agenda shall we?


Ekat wrote
'It distresses me that people ganged up on that girl because a hyperconfident troll decided that girls under a certain age would no longer be welcome on the site, and drove her off of it.'

Ekat wrote
'Since when is it sensible or respectful to tell a young woman in search of help with her weight that she she is a child and should go out and run and jump with toddlers instead of hanging out with her teenage friends and wearing fashionable clothes? He hounded her and other girls off the site, even though management of the site permits teenagers to belong and look for help here.'



Lets look at the facts of what was actually said

did anyone mention TODDLERS?....NO (made up lies)

Who was 'HOUNDED' off the site?

did we ALL gang up on her?


BTW Legally in the UK you are a CHILD at 16 at the time of the first posts because she was called Bgir16 it was assumed that was her age, it later transpired she was 18


WHAT WAS ACTUALLY SAID

spacey said
'your a child

eat, play, be happy, run and have fun

give it a few years before you surrender to the madness'


spacey said
'The kid is 16 and is a child encourage her to stay away from here and just be
A KID! Not get caught up in this whole body conscious stuff at her age'



micki13 said
'i agree. you are still a child.don't worry about silly stuff like this.you are still growing. your body is still changing.do NOT put up someone else's picture on your fridge or anywhere else.ESPECIALLY with your head on it.its not your body.you will look your own way.seriously people,what's wrong with you !'

micki13 said

'yes,way to go encouraging an eating disorder in a young teenager.i'm surprised at some of the advice here.bgirl16,i would encourage you to talk to someone if you are still finding that your having a hard time.take care!'


spacey said
'bgirl16. Listen to micki13'


Is that HOUNDING or is it giving GOOD advice to someone to seek someone to talk to? YOU DECIDE?

OH LOOK MORE TERRIBLE BULLYING AND HOUNDING FROM SPACEY
THE POOR YOUNG WOMAN MUST HAVE BEEN TERRORISED AND TRAUMATISED BY IT


Spacey wrote
'Good luck with your weight loss sorry you had to read so much nonsense,

Slow and steady wins the race, think health first and weight loss Will follow, no fad diets just a good balanced diet and exercise.

Counting calories is a bit boring but it does work Smile

BTW just over a year ago I was a few pounds heavier than you at 210-215lbs, by managing my calories and exercising I got down to my goal weight in 6 months losing 42lbs in the process and have kept if off for a further 6 months and I am nearly 49!

Use the app it does work'


The OP actually wrote to THANK all of us for OUR Support!

Bgir16 wrote

Thanks everyone. It's not like I hate myself or anything. But I just know that the way I see myself in the mirror isn't good. I'm 18 and ready to take the lead in my life. Just want to be healthy is all. Instead of being sad when trying to go shopping. For once in my life I wish I could enjoy shopping. I've lost 10 lbs so far and I'm working my way to my goals. But thank you all for your support.


you know I will probably get BANNED again but I felt so strongly about this I had to log in and post again because when people DISTORT the truth to suit their own sick agendas it sickens me to the core.

so you can give this type of advice to a vulnerable young woman....= NO BAN
Make unfounded accusations of illicit DRUG use to 2 people=NO BAN

quote a few songs and ask about what happens if you eat a slice of bread=BAN!


please someone quote this post so it doesn't get lost when I am ERASED from history again!




This place is upside down


You will indeed more than likely be banned dude, unfortunately for you, and those who appreciated your advice, you was a tad too passionate and in some cases rude on a personal level.

I hope they let you re-join, as I am sure the website and app has worked for you, and that by sharing your experiences others will benefit also, which is the purpose of the website and app?

Either way, be good, behave and enjoy your health Smile
Your body, your choice, heed advice, not instructions.
Rita41

Joined: Apr 13
Posts: 186

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 07:06
spacey49 wrote:


A very FAIR set of comments to be honest and thanks for Quoting me so I don't get erased when the inevitable ban comes along.

TBH I'm weaning myself of this site it can be become quite time consuming and I feel I have said all I have to say in many ways.

I think the trouble with the whole losing weight thing is that to succeed LONGTERM by which I mean years rather than months requires a big personal change which is why so many dieters do not sustain and rebound weight gain down the line.

People will cling on to all sorts of myths, fads and gurus to try and gain an edge but the reality the only person who can REALLY HELP YOU IS YOURSELF.... read books, eat this, do that, count calories whatever you do YOU HAVE TO FIND WHAT MAKE IT STICK ...............
if fantasies help you achieve it good luck but its really just about moderating our basic impulses and behaviours over a lifetime to MANAGE OUR BODIES

you cant HAVE your cake and eat it ............but you can enjoy a slice now and then Very Happy


Thanks Spacey.
mummydee

Joined: Feb 10
Posts: 1,748

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 07:53
Anyone will get banned if they are rude, hurtful and/or verbally abusive. The administrators decide. I believe this is why you were banned not because of your advice to anyone, which after reading the whole thread was well said.
Just to be fair to the person that started this 'lighthearted' thread, (that did get sidetracked sometimes) I think it's a thread worth continuing but do you think it might be an idea to start this conversation in defence of yourself in a new thread so we can address it there? It's worth talking about.

Remember , you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar Wink

mummydee

Joined: Feb 10
Posts: 1,748

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 09:44
spacey49 wrote:
Well I have logged in as other accounts. Made no "rude" remarks at all but questioned certain views and got banned again, presumably on the word of one person.

One of 2 people who have accused me of taking drugs and also Diablo but hey no bans for them


I would just brush off your shoulders and move forward. Keep it positive and informative and see where it takes you.

One day (or one post) at a time!
mummydee

Joined: Feb 10
Posts: 1,748

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 10:57
kingkeld wrote:
MAke sure the noodle is whole wheat. Smile


Oh god , now you're gonna really hurt me! imagine all those little g.m.organisms all over my body, Yikes, i'll repent, never again ! Laughing
Rita41

Joined: Apr 13
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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 11:09
I would just like to say that Diablo is doing great!!
polly56

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 11:48
Well done Diablo,stay away!
Didn't realise it would get so personal.so a final and massive thank you to Spacey and Kingkeld.
As I believe in holistic well being and this site is starting to become upsetting im off Smile
The gym and good old fashioned pen and paper logging of calories and lots of long walks through the English countryside Smilepeace out health and happiness good luck on your journeys all Smile
Polly Smile
mummydee

Joined: Feb 10
Posts: 1,748

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 11:58
Rita41 wrote:
I would just like to say that Diablo is doing great!!

Nothing like an intervention!

did better than me, But i blame Voga! that wonderful Italian Pinot Grigio mmmmmm it was worth it!
polly56

Joined: Apr 13
Posts: 16

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 12:17
thanks Spacey-i'll look into that Smile
just trying to work out how to delete account!! cant see how-doh!
Polly Smile
micki13

Joined: Aug 12
Posts: 152

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Posted: 27 Jul 2013, 12:40
hey spacey,good to have you back! officially!Wink and Polly,please don't be turned off by people.just ignore the ranting.i do.there is some good people that are a good to have around as resource and motivation.
spacey,hope you get to stick around.that campaign against you was pretty terrible.i know you're not exactly "cuddle style",but i like your no nonsense advice.



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